Well, here’s my story…
We were best friends for 2 years before I started liking him. Guess when he decided to come out of the closet? -.- Seriously though… that year I became his confidante and we just seemed to get closer and closer and then one day about 6 months later I was going crazy, thinking, how can he not feel anything?! He always said he loved me the most out of anyone… but I knew it wasn’t the same love… and then about a week after that he told me that he hated me (like, jokingly) and then told me why… it was cos he was so sure he was gay, so certain of it, but then I came along and he was confused… that was about 6 months ago :\ nothing’s happened it’s just been so confusing. I told him then that I liked him too and so far it’s been to the point where everyone is either thinking or saying we should go out… but I think he’s scared of losing his gay “image” rather than his personality, you know? I’ve tried ‘settling’ with other guys but it hasn’t really worked out so I’ve stopped that now… I’ll think I like them and then the next day he’ll call me and all I have to do is hear his voice and I’m sucked back in… ~bangs head on the wall~ it’s so frustrating and so complicated and I love him so much. Now I know he loves me, but he’s still got some stuff to figure out, but I don’t care. I’ll wait for as long as it takes, really. ‘cos I don’t want anything less than him. (Oh God I hope he doesn’t stumble on this forum). And by the way, I don’t think God ever intended something as beautiful as love between anyone to be a sin. I’m Christian and I follow Jesus Christ’s teachings and he’s never said anything against homosexuality, and I’ve never had anything against it. This whole page definitely makes me feel better, though, I’m not the only one, thank goodness.