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(English) I am wondering for my son…

Question posée par Lexi Gonsales (43 years old heterosexual woman from United States of America, États-Unis)

Question répondue le septembre 22, 2005 par

Classé dans Gai & lesbienne, Questions, Transsexualité

(English) My son, 17, who lives with his father, ex military in Georgia, just called me the other day and told me that not only is he gay, but he wants to start hormone treatment for transexual surgery. He also got himself a job under the pretense of being a girl. He dresses in female clothing only. He lies about his gender. He tells others he is a girl. He decided to drop out of school and wanting to go to Beauty School upon completion of his GED. He wants to move back down to Florida near me to live his lifestyle. I love my son regardless of his orientation, he is my child no matter what. However, I am not sure how to deal with this situation and how to give him the best support. Where I live, gay lifestyle is not very acceptable. Especially, when blatantly flaunted. I am worried about his safety when encountering others who rather bash gay lifestyle.

My fiance already said, that he accepts and loves Alex regardless, but he will not tolerate blatant gay behavior in our house.

His father although very nice to him can’t wait for Alex to move out his house. Alex’s brother seems very nice, too, as well as his step sister. His step brother is the typical jerk who enjoys cutting Alex down and drown him with humiliation and insults.

Please give me advice on how to best support him.

Thank you Lexi

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