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I find girls attractive, but I don’t want a relationship with them. Am I bi ?
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I find girls attractive, but I don’t want a relationship with them. Am I bi ?

Question asked by This Girl (15 years old questioning woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on March 28, 2006 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, Gay & Lesbian, Questions

So, I’m not sure. I like guys. I LOVE guys. But, I’d like to try stuff with girls. I don’t know if this makes me bi, I doubt it does. But I just really.. REALLY wanna know. Yes, I find them attractive, but I wouldn’t consider one to be a grilfriend. Does this make me straight, bi, curious, or questioning?

Thanks for your time.

Hi “This girl” !

Thanks for your question. Only you can answer to the question “Who am I ?”, but here are some clues :

You seem to be sure that you are attracted to guys. And, physically, you have an attraction for girls, but you don’t want a girlfriend. So… with what you are saying, you seem to be sexually attracted to men an women, so sexually bisexual, but emotionnaly heterosexual. But, this can evolve in your life : maybe at some point your attraction for girls will disappear. Maybe, once you will have try having a sexual relation with a girl, you will be more able to clarify this question.

Hope that helped,

François, for AlterHeros

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Impliqué au sein d’AlterHéros depuis 2004, François fait partie du conseil d’administration depuis 2005, à titre de vice-président puis de directeur de l’intervention. Il occupe ce poste de mai 2005 à mai 2007, puis de novembre 2007 à maintenant. Diplômé de l’UQAM en sexologie et de l’Université McGill en travail social, il a été employé dans de nombreuses organisations communautaires allosexuelles montréalaises, telles que la CJMLH et le REJAQ, en plus de travailler dans différents endroits du réseau de la santé.

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