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(English) I am straight, but I am questioning whether I’m attracted to my female friend

Question posée par Kat (17 years old questioning woman from Canada, Canada)

Question répondue le février 27, 2008 par

Classé dans Bisexualité, Questions, Relations amoureuses

(English) I’ve lately begun to wonder if what I feel for one of my closest friends is more than just friendship. Sometimes I think I’d like to kiss her, but other times, I feel nothing sexual at all. I’m not worried about how she would receive this, as I know she has been attracted to women before, and very much supports the LGBT community. Right now, I’m just so confused about how I actually feel about her. I do tend to seek her approval a lot, and when she praises me, I feel absurdly pleased with it. On the other hand, up until very recently, I’d never even seriously considered if I might be even bisexual, and I’m not sure if what I’m feeling for her is genuine attraction, or just a little girl crush. What should I do?

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