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(English) I want to see my friend more frequently, but he won’t let me!

Question posée par Sarah (18 years old heterosexual woman from United Kingdom (Great Britain), Royaume-Uni)

Question répondue le septembre 27, 2008 par

Classé dans Amitié, Questions

(English) Hi, I need help: I want to meet up with my best friend more frequently, but he lives a 3 hour train journey away from me. He has a busy life, he works 5 days a week and works on the weekends but he is able to take days off.
I only do a 3 day a week college course during the week so I have a lot of spare time and whenever I ask if we can meet up sometime he’ll put it off and say he’s always busy. We talk every day texting and instant messaging each other but I just want to spend more time with him.
Does he not want to pursue this friendship? He means the world to me and he sometimes says that to me as well but I wonder if you have any wise words that would help me. I am desperate to meet up with him more frequently. I know he is not very comfortable travelling on his own, but even when I offer to go and see him, he won’t let me. What should I do?

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