I am deeply attracted to my fiance (both physically and emotionally), but I can’t stop thinking about a girl
First off, I want to state that my name has been changed due to it’s unique-ness.
Recently, my fiance (who i’ve been dating for almost 3 years) convinced me, after a couple drinks, to go to a topless bar. We got there and sat and watched the girls dancing which wasn’t so bad. Later, my fiance bought me a lap dance from one of the dancers. I am afraid to admit this, but I think it did something for me.
My fiance (who is the type who is turned on by girl-on-girl situations) brought me back the next night also. Both him and a friend of his bought me a lap dance that night, which really did something for me.
In the past I have been turned on by lesbian pornography also…
I am deeply attracted to my fiance (both physically and emotionally), but I can’t stop thinking about one of the girls who danced for me.
Am I bisexual or was it just the alcohol? I know labels aren’t important, but I am just confused and curious about all this.
Any insight would be appreciated!
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