If I masturbate while thinking about men, does this mean I’m gay?
I think about men when I masturbate but I like women. I don’t know if I’m gay or not because of this. I get called gay at school because of my voice. My voice has deepened a little bit since the 7th grade. I have had sex with a girl already and I’m totally straight. I love women. But I have emotional feelings for women and I don’t know why I can’t have physical feelings. So what I’m trying to ask is… if I masturbate while thinking about men and have physical thoughts, does that mean I’m gay?
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