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I was always a lesbian, am I turning bisexual over one man?

Question asked by cris (31 years old homosexual woman from Philippines, Philippines)

Question answered on July 28, 2009 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, Discovery, Questions

Call me Cris. I’m confused and afraid with my feelings.for almost 13 years ive been living happily as a lesbian then after our break up with my girlfriend for 3 years, things have changed.it all started when i met a man last may. We become good friends. After a week I’ve been disturbed by a strange feelings like missing him, thinking of him, dreaming etc…. that it never happen to me before. Is it because of his good attitude like being sweet, caring, thoughtful etc..?
It really scared me to death thinking that I’m a bisexual. My friends and families accepted me already as a lesbian, then all of a sudden this crazy feeling appeared. I don’t know how to face and handle it. I’m really confused, don’t know what to do. Pls i need your advice.
thanks and more power

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