I feel suicidal about a guy who won’t return my calls

Question asked by Anonymous (28 years old homosexual man from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on 21 October 2009 by

Sorted in Questions, Outing, Suicide


I met a 32 yo straight guy at a straight bar in December and brought him back to my place. I offered to give him a massage and he flipped and left, but before he leaves, he confesses to me that he is curious. We exchanged phone numbers and we spoke once, but then he didn’t respond to my text message so I left him alone. Over the summer, I started thinking about how I enjoyed his company that night and how I was impressed with his interest in my personality. So, I called him back but two weeks passed by and he didn’t call me back. Therefore, I call him and he told me that he would call me back that night or the day after. He still hasn’t called me back. I am feeling suicidal lately and I feel quite depressed over this, I feel so unloved and unappreciated. I wish I could have him in my arms and tell him how much I miss him and care about him. Can you guys please help me? I can’t take this pain anymore.

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