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I’m sure I’m attracted to men, but i’m repulsed by the sight of a penis!

Question asked by Sean (19 years old questioning man from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on September 15, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Questions, Sex

Hi, I’m really confused. I’m a male, 19 years of age and I have always been attracted to men. I am a virgin and I’m not sexually active. The thought/sight of a man’s penis does not arouse me in fact, I feel repulsed by it. What does this mean? Am I actually straight? Who should I talk to about all this? Surely by 19 I should have figured this out so that I can get on with my life! I’m sick of all this uncertainty.

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