Can I be labeled a girl or a boy or something in between?
Lately I’ve wondered if I would be happier as a boy. I don’t hate my female body parts, I don’t mind my breasts, though I think they look better in other people. I don’t feel “trapped in the wrong body”, but it isn’t right either.
I also have trouble with my sexuality, I am not turned on by anything but male gay porn, and feminine men. I am not boyish at all, and like feminine clothes, all except skirts.
Am I transgendered? Should I be a boy? I don’t think I would be a “boy”, as in the stereotypical type, I am much more like a girl in that way. But sometimes I wish I was a gay boy. I wish people would ask me: “Elisa, what would have happened if you were born a boy?”
I only have female friends, I am comfortable around them, and not attracted to them, I hate having periods, and I envy boys in some ways, yet I can tell women have it better in others.
Can I be labeled as “girl” or “boy”? Am I something in between? Help, please!
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