Am I still a lesbian if I’m attracted to my transgender friend?
I’m a lesbian that has been with the same butch lesbian for a while. My question is: could I still be considered lesbian if I’ve been dreaming and having sexual thoughts about transgender people F2M? I have found myself very aroused by there looks… I guess i’m writing this because i haven’t had sex with my partner in over two months because i just don’t seem attracted to her as much as I did before. I love my girlfriend very much but, I’m at a loss on what to do and tell her. I have a friend that’s transgender (as well as others) and, I cant seem to stop thinking about him… When i’m around him nothing matters anymore I feel complete… He’s smart, funny, sexually attractive, and very easy to talk to. I can totally see us being together but, i cant get myself to hurt the person im with because, im a bit confused on why im attracted to him and not her anymore…. Please help!!
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