I am starting to have feelings for my lesbian friend…
I have a close lesbian friend. I used to see her as a friend until somewhat recently. After spending 2 days out and about I slowly started to feel differently about her. I figured this was most likely due to me being out and about, change of scenery, or something like that. I will say that has been the most fun I’ve had in a long time. I thought this would go away but it’s only gotten stronger over time really.
I’ve talked to a close friend of mine and he had no advise really. I tend to overthink things a lot so I am at wits end as to what I should do. I don’t want to say something and ruin what we have now. Even if I get “friend zoned” I think that would be better than doing something stupid and ruining the friendship we have.
Also a note about me, I am generally very shy quiet around people I don’t know. I tend to think too much and can get stressed easily. This situation is giving me headaches..
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