Kathleen Kabis

Kathleen était étudiante en sexologie au baccalauréat à l'Université du Québec à Montréal et pense retourner aux études en travail social.

Savoir que j’aide des gens, souvent des jeunes, qui ne savent pas toujours à qui d’autre s’adresser. Il n’y aura jamais trop de ressources dans ce domaine. De plus, ça me donne une certaine expérience avec la communauté avec laquelle je veux travailler d’ici quelques années.

Articles par Kathleen Kabis

I’ve always taken pride in my androgyny – am I transgendered?

Question asked by Ophelia/Orion (16 years old questioning from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on October 15, 2010 by Kathleen Kabis

Sorted in Questions, Transsexuality, Travestites

Hi, Thank you for writing to Alterhéros. I'll try to answer your questions as best as I can. Reflecting on certain issues about your gender and sexual orientation could help clarify this situation a bit. Here are a few questions I think you might want to think about to understand yourself better. You ... Read more.

I want to tell them that I am bisexual, but I don’t want my team to hate me…

Question asked by Matt (19 years old man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on May 24, 2010 by Kathleen Kabis

Sorted in Questions, Coming out

Hi Matt, Thank you for writing to Alterhéros! You are unsure if you should tell the rest of your football team if you are bisexual because the team president advised you not to. Unfortunatly you didn't mention how the few people of your team to whom you came out reacted to ... Read more.

I am in love with my gay friend !

Question asked by maricor (16 years old heterosexual woman from Philippines, Philippines)

Question answered on May 16, 2010 by Kathleen Kabis

Sorted in Love, Questions

Hi Maricor, Thank you for writing to Alterhéros. Unfortunately, I don't think there is any easy solution to your problem. If your friend has told you he is gay, and therefore not interested in having a romantic relationship with you, then it's something you will have to accept, because being gay is ... Read more.

I hate that I am attracted to men…

Question asked by Peter (21 years old questioning man from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on January 7, 2010 by Kathleen Kabis

Sorted in En questionnement, Questions

Hi Peter, Thank you for sharing your question with Alterhéros. You explain that early into puberty, your fascination with women changed to one for men. You dislike this part of you, but know you cannot change it. However, you are emotionally more attracted to the opposite sex and would like to ... Read more.

I don’t want to make the exchange student uncomfortable by disclosing my sexual orientation…

Question asked by Marie (15 years old homosexual woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on November 19, 2009 by Kathleen Kabis

Sorted in Questions, Coming out

Hello Marie, Thank you for writing to Alterhéros. You tell me that youre participating in an exchange between France and your hometown. The girl you are exchanging with is currently staying at your place and you're afraid to tell her you are a lesbian in a relationship with a girl, ... Read more.

I’m afraid to make it obvious I like him because he might be straight…

Question asked by Jake (16 years old questioning man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on November 15, 2009 by Kathleen Kabis

Sorted in Friendship, Questions

Hi Jake! Thanks for writing to Alterheros. You tell me you're very close to your best guy friend, you guys joke around by touching each other or flirting. He has a girlfriend, but you like him as more than just friends. You're not sure if you should tell him how you ... Read more.