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Avatar ImageKay Wo

Kay holds a master degree in sexology. She has also been involved in public speaking to youth on fighting homophobia in schools, as well as working with youth living with HIV. Kay volunteers also for CAEO Québec (Gay Line, Gay Online and SILK).

Since I joined the AlterHéros team, I have greatly enjoyed my time as an “Tell the expert” expert. Not only do I enjoy writing up tid bits of advice to inquiring minds, I feel that I have gained a lot from hearing about the problems and inquiries of individuals from all different walks of life. This has afforded me to think outside the box, outside of my own context and to expand my understanding of people, sexuality and a wide range of other subjects. This monthly challenge has benefited me in many ways and I have always appreciated how easily it fits in to my schedule. Not only that, but the staff have always been friendly and flexible concerning my needs.

Articles par Kay Wo

I came out to my parents as lesbian but they don’t believe me and my friends rejected me.  What do I do now?

I came out to my parents as lesbian but they don’t believe me and my friends rejected me. What do I do now?

Question asked by Jamie (14 questioning woman, Canada)

Question answered on June 22, 2011 by

Sorted in Friendship, Family, Coming out, Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions, Resources, Coming out

Hi Jamie, Thanks for writing in to us at AlterHéros.  From your post, it sounds like you’re struggling with your coming out to your parents and close friends as lesbian and that you’re trying to figure out what to do now and how to get help. First of all, a great big ... Read more.
If I could pass, would my family support me if I decided I was transgender?

If I could pass, would my family support me if I decided I was transgender?

Question asked by clay (21 years old questioning man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on November 18, 2010 by

Sorted in Acceptance, Questions, Travestites

Hello Clay, Thanks for writing in to us at AlterHéros. From the sounds of your post, it seems that you have become increasingly depressed over the years regarding your strong feelings towards potentially being a woman inside. You also mention that if you were able to pass as one, you would ... Read more.
I cross dress and want to be a female model

I cross dress and want to be a female model

Question asked by Jen/jef (18 years old man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on August 4, 2010 by

Sorted in Questions, Transsexuality, Travestites

Hey Jef, Thanks for writing in to us at AlterHéros. From the sounds of your post, you're looking for some guidance regarding a possible male to female (MTF) gender transition. As you've said, you like to cross dress and you feel really normal as a girl, ever since you were three ... Read more.
Gay/Transsexual porn turns me on but I’m sure I’m straight.

Gay/Transsexual porn turns me on but I’m sure I’m straight.

Question asked by Geoff (23 years old heterosexual man from Switzerland, Switzerland)

Question answered on July 24, 2010 by

Sorted in Facts, Questions, Transsexuality

Hey Geoff, Thanks for writing in to us at AlterHéros and also, thank you for the pat on the back! It's always nice to get some positive feedback from our readers. Now on to your question! From your post, your problem seems to be the following: even though you've always identified as ... Read more.
I dislike my guy parts but like hanging out with guys, doing guy things

I dislike my guy parts but like hanging out with guys, doing guy things

Question asked by Zach (15 years old questioning from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on July 7, 2010 by

Sorted in Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions, Trans living

Hey Zach, Thanks for writing in to us at AlterHéros. From your post, it sounds as though you are pretty confused about some of the feelings you're having. First of all, rest assured that at your age, it's completely normal to start wondering about your attraction to the ... Read more.
Meeting other gay male teens in Humberside UK

Meeting other gay male teens in Humberside UK

Question asked by Andy (14 years old homosexual man from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on June 2, 2010 by

Sorted in Dating, Questions, In the community

Hi Andy, Thanks for writing in to us at AlterHéros with your question. First of all, we deeply apologize for taking so long to get back to you. Our UK correspondent got held up and never got a chance to write a response. Hopefully this reply isn't ... Read more.
What if someone wanted to do away with gender ?

What if someone wanted to do away with gender ?

Question asked by Dave (29 years old heterosexual man from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on May 21, 2010 by

Sorted in Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions

Hi Dave, Firstly, thank you so much for writing in to us at AlterHéros with your questions. Secondly, PUT DOWN THAT JURY RIGGED PAIR OF HEDGE CLIPPERS! Though it might seem like an immediate solution, let's talk about your situation a bit first. As an individual who wishes ... Read more.
My boyfriend won’t stop masturbating with online men!

My boyfriend won’t stop masturbating with online men!

Question asked by Marie (41 years old heterosexual woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on May 7, 2010 by

Sorted in Internet Worries, Questions, Relationships

Hi Marie, Thanks for writing to us at AlterHéros. It sounds like the fact that your long term boyfriend is masturbating online with other men is causing you a great deal of concern. Notably, you did not mention two things in your post: 1) whether or not this ... Read more.
My friend still leads me on after she said she doesn’t like me that way

My friend still leads me on after she said she doesn’t like me that way

Question asked by Stephanie (16 years old questioning woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on March 31, 2010 by

Sorted in Friendship, Questions, Outing

Hey Stephanie, We're so glad that you decided to write us back with an update. First of all, it's great to hear that you took the time to talk about your feelings with your friend; some people are too scared to even do that so you deserve kudos for ... Read more.
Does my teacher like me? I have a crush on her!

Does my teacher like me? I have a crush on her!

Question asked by Molly (14 years old woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on March 8, 2010 by

Sorted in Age difference, High-school, Questions

Hi Molly, Thank you so much for writing in to us at AlterHéros and sharing your situation. From the sounds of it, it seems that you've got a huge crush on your female ELA teacher and you're wondering if she likes you back. Let's make a list of ... Read more.
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