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How my male straight friends can be sure I will resond willingly to their advances?

Question asked by freddy (36 years old questioning man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on May 1, 2007 by sara rahmani

Hello Freddy, Thank you for writing to AlterHeros. I understand that you are attracted to straight men but do not pursue your attraction to them. The sexual encounters that you have had with straight men have been initiated by your partners. You are a passive partner in your intimate encounters ... Read more.

I have strong feelings and attractions for the same sex… am I lesbian ?

Question asked by Ashley (17 years old questioning woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on March 18, 2007 by sara rahmani

Sorted in En questionnement, Family, Questions

Hi Ashley, Thanks for writing to AlterHeros. I understand that you are attracted to other women but are not certain if this is a stage you are going through or if this means that you are a lesbian. You have yet to experience a relationship with anyone of either gender and ... Read more.

Am I really attracted to those girls or is it just that I identify with them ?

Question asked by Mel Harvey (28 years old woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on November 1, 2006 by sara rahmani

Sorted in Questions, Relationships

Hi Mel, Thanks for writing to AlterHeroes. I understand that you are currently involved in a same-sex relationship and are finding yourself attracted to other lesbians. You are under stress and feel guilty about this attraction to other women. You are asking if your attraction to lesbians is sincere or ... Read more.

My bestfriend and I became lovers, then he disappeared…

Question asked by rose (36 years old heterosexual woman from Haiti, Haiti)

Question answered on October 23, 2006 by sara rahmani

Sorted in Friendship, Questions, Relationships

Hi Rose, Thanks for writting to AlterHeroes. I understand that you were in a relationship with your best friend for two months. Dispite his disclosure of love for you, he cut off contact with you suddenly and you have no explanation for his ending the relationship. Convinced that his declaration ... Read more.

I have strong feelings for an older man ?

Question asked by marie (15 years old heterosexual woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on September 30, 2006 by sara rahmani

Sorted in Age difference, Questions

Hello Marie, Thanks for writting to AlterHeroes. I understand that you have recently become attracted to a teacher at your school. From your description, I see that you are torn by your feelings regarding this mutual attraction. He is at least 25 years older than you and you worry that ... Read more.

What does those attractions means ?

Question asked by rhonda (36 years old questioning woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on September 10, 2006 by sara rahmani

Sorted in En questionnement, Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Hi Rhonda, Thanks for writting to AlterHeroes. I understand that you have become friends with a woman who you respect, trust and share a lot in common with. From your description, I gather that the ease of your relationship with this woman is very comforting and something that even those close ... Read more.

I am very stressed about my attractions

Question asked by Gavin Hollypar (19 years old questioning man from Australia, Australia)

Question answered on June 20, 2006 by sara rahmani

Sorted in Acceptance, Bisexuality, Questions

Hello Gavin, Thanks for writting to AlterHeros. I understand that you are stressed because of a recent attraction to guys. Your desire to experiment with guys has raised some fears that you may not be as sexually confident as you would like to be approaching guys. You are also worried ... Read more.

Is it wrong to have sex at 16 years old ?

Question asked by Catherine (16 years old heterosexual woman from Malaysia, Malaysia)

Question answered on May 30, 2006 by sara rahmani

Sorted in Questions, Sex

Hi Catherine Thanks for writting to AlterHeros. I understand that you are 16 years-old and are curious if it is wrong for you, at your age, to have sex. I think it is best that you first break the connection between age and maturity. Remember that maturity does not always ... Read more.