Virginie Dubé-Ménard

Articles par Virginie Dubé-Ménard

It feels like a hand around my throat – I think I love him

Question asked by Jackson (14 years old questioning man from Australia, Australia)

Question answered on August 5, 2010 by Virginie Dubé-Ménard

Sorted in Bisexuality, Discovery, Questions

Hello Jackson, Thanks for writing to Alterheros, I'll do my best to help you answer your question. You say that all your life, you considered yourself straight, but since your 14th birthday, you feel attracted to your best friend, and the attraction is mutual, you kissed and you miss him when he's ... Read more.

I’m not accepting my orientation – something is still missing.

Question asked by Elias (19 years old questioning man from France, France)

Question answered on July 23, 2010 by Virginie Dubé-Ménard

Sorted in Bisexuality, Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions

Hi Elias! Thanks for writing to AlterHéros. If I understand well, you're unsure about your sexual orientation, and unhappy about it. Also, you feel depressed and lonely at times, even though you don't really know why. If you don't mind I'll separate the two issues. Since you've already tried sex with both ... Read more.

I am in love with my lesbian friend !

Question asked by daniel (23 years old heterosexual man from Australia, Australia)

Question answered on May 24, 2010 by Virginie Dubé-Ménard

Sorted in Love, Questions

Hello Daniel! If I understand it well, you're in love with someone who's already engaged and you don't know if and how to let her know of your feelings. It is a really delicate situation, you should carefully consider the consequences. You say that she's been a lesbian for only 3 years. ... Read more.

My boyfriend is bisexuel, I am insecure that I will not completely satisfy him…

Question asked by jessie (27 years old heterosexual woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on May 17, 2010 by Virginie Dubé-Ménard

Sorted in Bisexuality, Questions

Hi Jessie! Thanks for writing to AlterHeros about your situation. Just to rephrase it, your boyfriend told you recently he's bisexual and it causes a conflict of emotions in you, both excitation and insecurity. Those feelings are totally normal, and it's normal to be confused. I believe in this situation communication ... Read more.

I met this guy, but I don’t know if I should tell him my feelings

Question asked by John (20 years old man from France, France)

Question answered on May 11, 2010 by Virginie Dubé-Ménard

Sorted in Questions, Relationships

Hi John! Thanks for taking the time to write to Alterheros about your dilemma. It's always hard to let someone know of your feelings when you're not sure how they will be received. As you know, your choices pretty much are either to tell him or not. If you tell him, best ... Read more.