Comfortable in your skin

(Français) Comment savoir : Amitié ou amour ?

(Français) Comment savoir : Amitié ou amour ?

Question asked by Justine (Femme de 15 ans, Canada)

Question answered on January 31, 2012 by

Sorted in Friendship, Self-esteem, Questions, Relationships

Bonjour Justine, D'abord, je te remercie de la confiance que tu nous accordes. Premièrement, tu dis entretenir une relation privilégiée avec une amie, qui serait peut-être pour vous deux, une relation plus sérieuse qu'une simple amitié. D'un côté, je ne sais pas si cette fille est la première ou l'une des premières filles ... Read more.
I don’t know what to do, I want to talk about my feelings for other girls…

I don’t know what to do, I want to talk about my feelings for other girls…

Question asked by Emily (Femme de 14 ans, Canada)

Question answered on July 21, 2011 by

Sorted in Depression, Questions

Hi Emily, Dealing with your sexual identity at such a young age can be difficult for you, your family and your friends.  Family often think it can’t happen to them.  Friends can be okay with it one day, then not on another. You should be proud that you are ... Read more.
Will watching transexual porn compromise my hetero lifestyle?

Will watching transexual porn compromise my hetero lifestyle?

Question asked by Matt (22 years old heterosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on June 24, 2011 by

Sorted in Comfortable in your skin, En questionnement, Questions, Sex

Hi Matt, Thanks for writing in with your question. It can be confusing when you realize you are interested in something you may have otherwise thought of as abnormal, but let me say that being turned on my transsexual porn is not abnormal at all. People are turned on ... Read more.
I would like to make my coming out, but I am 63 years old and frightened…

I would like to make my coming out, but I am 63 years old and frightened…

Question asked by direne (63 bisexual woman, United States of America)

Question answered on June 22, 2011 by

Sorted in Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions

Hi Direne, By the sounds of your question is seems that you are feeling quite overwhelmed and that you might perhaps be ready to explore some parts of yourself that have confused you for some time now. I want to start by highlighting how much strength it takes ... Read more.
I came out to my parents as lesbian but they don’t believe me and my friends rejected me.  What do I do now?

I came out to my parents as lesbian but they don’t believe me and my friends rejected me. What do I do now?

Question asked by Jamie (14 questioning woman, Canada)

Question answered on June 22, 2011 by

Sorted in Friendship, Family, Coming out, Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions, Resources, Coming out

Hi Jamie, Thanks for writing in to us at AlterHéros.  From your post, it sounds like you’re struggling with your coming out to your parents and close friends as lesbian and that you’re trying to figure out what to do now and how to get help. First of all, a great big ... Read more.
I realized I feel like a man…

I realized I feel like a man…

Question asked by Raph (17)

Question answered on March 12, 2011 by

Sorted in Comfortable in your skin, Questions

Hi Raph, It takes a lot of strength and courage to share your feelings with your friends and parents. It's really great and impressive that you were brave enough to do this. It sounds like your friends are a great support to you! It is important to surround yourself with people ... Read more.
I don’t feel grown up at age 28: I don’t know if I’m gay/bi/straight

I don’t feel grown up at age 28: I don’t know if I’m gay/bi/straight

Question asked by Jamie Archer (28 years old questioning man from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on November 25, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Self-esteem, Questions

Hi Jamie, First off you are by far not inferior, and not “not grown up”, due to your inexperience. I promise you are not the first to be in a situation like the one you are in, or at least similar to it. Many times men that are more in ... Read more.
I’m a straight female but don’t like my femininity

I’m a straight female but don’t like my femininity

Question asked by Anonymous (21 years old heterosexual woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on November 9, 2010 by

Sorted in Alienation, Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions

Hi there, Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. Believe it or not, many people feel the way you feel - disembodied and seemingly the wrong gender, appearance and object of attraction. You are definitely not alone, and it is not abnormal to feel the way you feel, despite ... Read more.
How come I get aroused by shirtless men? I’m sure I like women.

How come I get aroused by shirtless men? I’m sure I like women.

Question asked by Alex (15 years old man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on November 1, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions

Hey Alex thanks for your question, First off you are 15, it is perfectly normal at your age to be confused, you are basically right in the middle of adolescence. Most boys start feeling attraction to the opposite sex, attraction to the same sex, attraction to both sexes and/or sometimes ... Read more.
I think I have sadism, gender, sexuality issues

I think I have sadism, gender, sexuality issues

Question asked by Noah (20 years old)

Question answered on November 1, 2010 by

Sorted in Abuse, Questions, Loneliness

Hi Noah, Sounds like you have a lot going on. I can understand why you are confused, frustrated, and questioning. I don't believe anyone wants to be perceived as vulnerable, whether they are male or female. I think that most people are happier to be seen as strong, and ... Read more.
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