Self-esteem

(Français) Comment savoir : Amitié ou amour ?

(Français) Comment savoir : Amitié ou amour ?

Question asked by Justine (Femme de 15 ans, Canada)

Question answered on January 31, 2012 by

Sorted in Friendship, Self-esteem, Questions, Relationships

Bonjour Justine, D'abord, je te remercie de la confiance que tu nous accordes. Premièrement, tu dis entretenir une relation privilégiée avec une amie, qui serait peut-être pour vous deux, une relation plus sérieuse qu'une simple amitié. D'un côté, je ne sais pas si cette fille est la première ou l'une des premières filles ... Read more.
I don’t feel grown up at age 28: I don’t know if I’m gay/bi/straight

I don’t feel grown up at age 28: I don’t know if I’m gay/bi/straight

Question asked by Jamie Archer (28 years old questioning man from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on November 25, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Self-esteem, Questions

Hi Jamie, First off you are by far not inferior, and not “not grown up”, due to your inexperience. I promise you are not the first to be in a situation like the one you are in, or at least similar to it. Many times men that are more in ... Read more.
Is she slowly stealing my boyfriend’s attention from me?

Is she slowly stealing my boyfriend’s attention from me?

Question asked by Jane (16 years old heterosexual woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on March 16, 2009 by

Sorted in High-school, Self-esteem, Questions

Hi Jane, Apologies for the belated reply. From what you write, it seems like you have noticed that your boyfriend is showing interest in another girl and you are wondering what his intentions are. First, let me say that I can see that you have put a lot of thought into the issue. ... Read more.
I’m sensitive and don’t want to screw up our friendship

I’m sensitive and don’t want to screw up our friendship

Question asked by Foster J. Cook (13 years old heterosexual woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on March 12, 2009 by

Sorted in Self-esteem, Questions

Hi Foster, Thanks for your question. If you honestly don't want to mess up your friendship, then don't go for this girl. After all, you wouldn't want to take a chance, would you? Of course, you would; that's why you wrote to us! Although sometimes it can be scary to take a chance on a relationship, particularly ... Read more.
How do I control my sadism?

How do I control my sadism?

Question asked by itachi (14 years old heterosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on March 11, 2009 by

Sorted in Aggression, Self-esteem, Questions

Hello Itachi, I will first start by noticing you obviously take pride in your IQ, however, that isn't what makes someone sadistic, or uncaring, or gets people to like you. I'm concerned about your fascination with weapons. Do you have thoughts of hurting people? What extent are you going to to know ... Read more.
How do I keep my boyfriend though I’m insecure?

How do I keep my boyfriend though I’m insecure?

Question asked by Angel (23 years old homosexual woman from Philippines, Philippines)

Question answered on February 26, 2009 by

Sorted in Self-esteem, Questions, Relationships

Hello Angel, Thank you for writing in to us at AlterHéros. It seems that you are in a pretty difficult situation right now. From your letter, it sounds like you are happy with your boyfriend but you feel insecure about your relationship with him when you compare it to ... Read more.
Are my breasts normal in shape?

Are my breasts normal in shape?

Question asked by laura

Question answered on June 21, 2008 by

Sorted in Self-esteem, Questions

Hi Laura, I know you may have heard this before (so I will try and only say it this once), but everyone's body is different. This means that not only are people's bodies shaped differently, but they mature at different rates and in general have different things happen at different times. That ... Read more.
I wan’t to find my lesbian friend a girlfriend

I wan’t to find my lesbian friend a girlfriend

Question asked by Nadia (29 years old heterosexual woman from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on May 7, 2007 by

Sorted in Self-esteem, Questions, Relationships

Hi Nadia, Thanks for writing to AlterHeros. I understand that your friend, a lesbian woman, is always falling in love with heterosexual girls. She lacks confidence in herself and you want to help her to be happy. First of all, I want to ask you what your friend wants in ... Read more.
I hate myself because I’m a female.

I hate myself because I’m a female.

Question asked by RaeRae (19 years old heterosexual from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on April 27, 2007 by

Sorted in Self-esteem, Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions

Hi RaeRae ! Thanks for writing to AlterHeros. A sex change is a very long and complicated process. Depending on the place you live, there are different rules or steps that could applied. You may have to see a psychiatrist, live like the other gender for some months ... Read more.
I hate my feminine side…

I hate my feminine side…

Question asked by erik

Question answered on February 8, 2007 by

Sorted in Alienation, Self-esteem, Questions

Dear Erik, The way you talk, the way you walk or act doesn't have nothing to do with your sexual orientation. There are heterosexual men that acts the way you do it. There are two things I would like to discuss with you. First, does it really exist feminine and masculine ... Read more.
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