Uncomfortable in my skin
I feel I’ve wronged my parents by being gay
Dear Andy,
What is more important to you...to live your life or that of your parents? You are still young and many other issues will invade your mind that will require you to pause and think,What do I want? Am I doing this for myself or to please someone else? Do ... Read more.
Is my body normal?
Hi Alexis,
Thank you for your question. I am sure you are not the only one asking yourself these questions and having these insecurities about your body and its attractiveness. By asking this question, you are also helping others who might have been too afraid or ashamed to ask.
If I understood ... Read more.
Is there no way to give up homosexuality?
Hi Elyk,
I'm happy to hear that you have chosen to write to us. I understand your feelings and sentiments and empathize deeply. I understand the pressures of family and society to people who have attraction to people of the same sex. This occurs to people across the world who ... Read more.
I hate myself because I’m a female.
Hi RaeRae !
Thanks for writing to AlterHeros. A sex change is a very long and complicated process. Depending on the place you live, there are different rules or steps that could applied. You may have to see a psychiatrist, live like the other gender for some months ... Read more.
Tattoos and Piercings: Was Body Art all you got?
Have you ever considered getting some Body Art – tattoos, piercing, branding, or subdermal implants? Did you know that there may be risks involved, such as becoming infected with HIV or Hepatitis C? Do you assume that all tattoo parlours (body art studios) are safe? Can Body Art be safe? Yes, Body Art can be [...]
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What Is It Like To Be Transsexual?
What it feels like to be a Male-To-Female Transsexual Before, during, and after transition How it touches the soul, and How it affected my life. Initially, the trouble with my body being the wrong sex was just…troubling. My mother told me stories, before she died, of the difficulties toilet training me, of getting me [...]
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What is Transsexuality: Definition and Cause
INTRODUCTION: Transsexuality, also termed ‘Gender Dysphoria’ is now reaching the point of being reasonably well understood, though many myths and general foolishness about the subject still abound. This document concerns the classic definition of transsexuality, as defined by Benjamin, Money, Green, and so forth. Intersexuality and transgenderism will not be addressed other than obliquely. IN [...]
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Homos versus Heteros
In life, we are, us. Beings. With our differences: skin colours, religions, characters, physiques with all and each one one true! Our sorrows, our anguish, our joy, and our anger. It is ok to be different. One learns from the other.
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Why Me?
If there is one question which most gay men probably ask themselves the most is the ‘why me?’ question. At first, its always like hey, wait a minute I want to have kids, I want to be a family man, Why can’t I be that? why should I be…
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Modern Adolescence
Dear fellow victims of adolescence, As we struggle through our uninvited hormonal overload, we really must examine the purpose of adolescence in the modern world, if only to live up to our reputation as conceited egocentrics and under-stand ourselves just that little bit better. We need to justify why and how we are, because our [...]
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