Abuse

I can’t stop making lesbian jokes to my friend who hurt me

Question asked by (21 years old heterosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on December 6, 2010 by Philip Borden

Hi and thanks for coming to us with your question. I will do my best to assist you with your problem. So if I understand correctly, you have a female friend with whom you had some sexual chemistry, which eventually led to a sexual encounter between you. After this, however, she ... Read more.

I think I have sadism, gender, sexuality issues

Question asked by Noah (20 years old)

Question answered on November 1, 2010 by Suzanne

Sorted in Abuse, Questions, Loneliness

Hi Noah, Sounds like you have a lot going on. I can understand why you are confused, frustrated, and questioning. I don't believe anyone wants to be perceived as vulnerable, whether they are male or female. I think that most people are happier to be seen as strong, and ... Read more.

If she doesn’t like me, why does she make out with me?

Question asked by Chelsey (16 years old questioning woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on February 6, 2010 by Kelley R

Sorted in Abuse, Friendship, Questions

Hello Chelsey, Thank you for writing to AlterHeros with your questions. You shared with us that you have feelings for your best friend. You have told your friend about your attraction to her, but she has told you she does not feel the same way. Even though she said she does ... Read more.

I don’t want to be gay because it will perpetuate old stereotypes

Question asked by John (20 years old man from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on October 21, 2009 by Équipe AlterHéros

Sorted in Abuse, Acceptance, Questions

Hello John, Thank you for writing to AlterHéros about your concerns. You say that you're hesitant to come out because you feel like you will be proving people right about gay stereotypes. Let me begin by telling you that I understand your anger at this situation; I too was called a lesbian ... Read more.

I want to leave Tunisia for a country that allows gay marriage

Question asked by Media (21 years old homosexual man from Tunisia, Tunisia)

Question answered on September 29, 2009 by Julie Nguyen

Sorted in Abuse, Immigration, Questions

Hi Media, Thank you for writing to Alterheros. I would like to answer your question, to the best of my knowledge and opinion, in 4 points. I would first like to address the cultural situation you live in, in Tunisia. Then we could discuss your friendship with your best friend, and finally ... Read more.

Did sexual abuse make me gay?

Question asked by Sophie (14 years old homosexual from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on August 14, 2009 by Philip Borden

Sorted in Abuse, Causes of homosexuality / sexual orientation, Questions

Hi Sophie! Thanks for your question and please forgive the long wait for this answer. You're curious as to whether it's possible for sexual abuse to make someone gay. The short answer to this question is no. There is never a single root cause to someone being gay. There are ... Read more.

Did same-sex sexual abuse turn me gay?

Question asked by Julio (20 years old homosexual man from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on May 20, 2009 by Équipe AlterHéros

Sorted in Abuse, Causes of homosexuality / sexual orientation, Questions

Julio, I am sorry you were repeatedly molested during your childhood. People who have been molested are not more prone to change their sexuality than any other people. Many people know they are gay before they even have any kind of sexual contact. I must say, to find out who you are, ... Read more.

Depression, cutting and facing your parents about bisexuality

Question asked by Kelsey (14 years old woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on March 9, 2009 by Équipe AlterHéros

Sorted in Abuse, Depression, Questions

Hello Kelsey, I can see how this must be such a difficult and confusing time for you. The most important thing is that you were brave enough to ask for help. That is such a huge step to take. Most adults can't even do that. Therapy does take time. And finding a therapy that ... Read more.

I am worried about being addicted to online porn

Question asked by jason (25 years old heterosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on June 4, 2008 by Kay Wo

Sorted in Abuse, Drogues & Bars, Questions

Hi Jason, Thanks for writing in to us at AltherHéros. From what you said in your post, it sounds as though that you have been very happy with the influence that women have had in your life but you also seem concerned about an internet porn addiction. The first thing that ... Read more.

I had sex with my stepmother. Should I tell my father and did we break any incest laws?

Question asked by James (22 years old heterosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on January 10, 2008 by vi nguyen

Sorted in Abuse, Family, Questions

Hi James, Thank you for your question. Unfortunately you seem to be involved in a very complex and complicated situation, for which there will be no easy solutions. I would like to address firsthand the legal aspects of your question. The definition of incest, although it varies according to different resources ... Read more.

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