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Problematic Terminology
PROBLEMATIC: “homosexual” (as a n. or adj.) PREFERRED: “gay” (adj.); “gay man” or “lesbian” (n.) Please use “lesbian” or “gay man” to describe people attracted to members of the same sex. Because of the clinical history of the word “homosexual,” it has been adopted by anti-gay activists to suggest that lesbians and gay men are [...]
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Defamatory Language to Avoid
“fag,” “faggot,” “dyke,” “homo,” “queen,” “she-male,” “he-she,” “tranny” and similar epithets.The criteria for using these derogatory terms should be the same as those applied to hate words for other groups: they should not be used except in a direct quote which reveals the bias of the person quoted. So that such words are not given [...]
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Jonathan’s story
If I were asked to describe my experience as a gay youth, words would include confusion, fear, anxiety, severe depression and thoughts of suicide. The pain of being alone, with no one to talk too, and when no one seemed to understand was hard. In today’s society, being a gay youth is one of the most difficult things.
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Why Does Our Child Flaunt His/Her Sexuality?
Gays, lesbians and bisexuals are often accused of “flaunting” their sexuality when they “come out” as gay, when they are publicly affectionate with a same-sex partner, or when they wear gay symbols and T-shirts or participate in gay priden parades. In a world that still assumes all people are heterosexual, “coming out” is the only [...]
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Gay In High School
When I was in high school in 1970, the issue of homosexuality never came up except as a joke. Thursday's in those days was queer day, when anyone wearing white or green socks was called a homo. Kids would laugh when detecting the suspect colors but nobody really believed that there were homosexuals in the [...]
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Homophobia – one word; many meanings
What is Homophobia”The suffix “phobia” is derived from the Greek word “phobos”. In English, it means either fear or loathing. “Homophobia” has a variety of meanings, including: ”hatred of homosexuality” ”hatred of homosexuals” ”fear of gays and lesbians” ”a desire or attempt to discriminate against homosexuals” The fourth option appears to be the dominant meaning [...]
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Marc-Olivier Ouellet