Misconceptions & Clichés
Threeway without having sex with the other guy
Hi Rick,
Thank you very much for reaching out to Alterheros.
I understand that you are interested in having a 3 way relationship and wondering if this is crazy or normal. You also mentioned that you would not have sex with the guy.
First of all, I don't know if there is such ... Read more.
I fantasize about women during foreplay with my boyfriend
Hi Lauren,
Thank you for coming to Alterheros with your question.
In your question, you explain that you are happily in a relationship with your boyfriend and are thinking about engagement and marriage. You also bring up that you sometimes fantasize about other women during foreplay but not during sex* with ... Read more.
I’m not into stereotypical gay men – I want male energy, not female energy!
Thank you for your question, Craig,
It is difficult to determine everyone's exact sexual interests, ie. desires, lust, fantasy, sexual wants/needs, emotional state. Human sexuality is something that is very complex, there are even therapists that are called Sexologists. They study human sexual behavior in University for 3 years and more ... Read more.
I want to cut off my breasts!
Hi Laura!
Thanks for writing in to us at Alterhéros.
It sounds like you're having a tough time with your body right now. You write about not liking your breasts and about some issues you've run into with an non-traditional appearance. I'd like to assure you that you are certainly not alone ... Read more.
Our parents caught us kissing and now I have to go to Catholic school!
Hi Siobhan,
I would like to salute you, first of all, for being brave and seeking help. I truly believe that a problem shared is a problem halved.
I too, was in the same situation, as many other LGBT, when I was younger. It never dawned on me something that seemed ... Read more.
Male bisexuality among the handicapped
Hi John,
Thank you for your question.
I was not able to find specific data that showed that the prevalence of a gay and/or bisexual sexual orientation has increased among men with physical disabilities.
However, my sense is that a person with a physical disability may, in many cases, be discriminated against, either ... Read more.
Career over romantic relationships
Hi Tina,
It definitely is not necessary to have a boyfriend, now or later. Firstly, love will happen whether you plan it or not. Careers, you have to work hard at. So you go girl! Get your education-career and with it will come a whole new life filled with people and ... Read more.
Am I bisexual or lesbian?
Hi Kelsey, thanks for sending your question to Alterheros!
From what I understand, you are trying to find the right label for your sexual orientation, and also trying to decide if you are finding yourself more attracted to women because that is what's natural for you, or because you've had a ... Read more.
How can I remain straight?
Hello Rocky,
Thank you for your question.
It certainly seems that you are currently living through a difficult period.
From what you say I understand that you are mostly sexually attracted to men. However, you are not able to share the truth about your sexual orientation with your family or friends for fear ... Read more.
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