Internet Worries
Though we fight a lot and he seems to have a lover, I have feelings for him.
Robert,
First of all, thank you very much for reaching out to Alterheros. It takes a lot of courage to ask for help, especially when it comes to dealing with this kind of personal and sensitive issue.
I do understand that you have strong feelings for this person that you mentioned. ... Read more.
My boyfriend won’t stop masturbating with online men!
Hi Marie,
Thanks for writing to us at AlterHéros. It sounds like the fact that your long term boyfriend is masturbating online with other men is causing you a great deal of concern. Notably, you did not mention two things in your post: 1) whether or not this ... Read more.
Cyber Dating – The Future?
Most people shudder when they think of online dating. Most think you must be at the end of your rope to attempt such a feat. One pictures an unattractive person, 20 years older on the other line, who is not only charming, but a liar. Refusing to accept this stigma, we decided to set out [...]
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What Does a Gay Man Want? – The Heaven & Hell of Internet Dating
I “married” my college sweetheart at the University of Chicago when I was 19, and we were together for 20 years until HIV took him from me 10 years ago. Since then, I’ve had two intense relationships that lasted several years apiece. But about six years ago, I subscribed to AOL, with its virtual supermarket [...]
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Computer Safety – Internet Safety and Using the Family Computer
These tips and guidelines can help you stay safe. INTERNET SAFETY (Email, Chat, Discussion Boards, Newsgroups) Tip 1: Don’t give out personal information This includes last name, city, address, phone numbers, and your school name or location. The amount of information that is easily obtainable on the Internet is always increasing. Even if you don’t [...]
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Article published on January 30, 2003 in AlanIlagan.com by Alan Bennett Ilagan
Sorted in Dating, Dossiers, Internet Worries
Want to hear about the newest, most comfortable, guaranteed-to-find-you-a-date gay pick-up place? A few hints: there is no nasty smoke to fan away, no shady drugdealing corners, and no chance of being caught on the eleven o’clock news. It doesn’t offer drinks or food or fancy lighting, and there is no loud thumping dance music [...]
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