Sex & relationships

I am starting to have feelings for my lesbian friend…

I am starting to have feelings for my lesbian friend…

Question asked by Will (19 man, Canada)

Question answered on February 19, 2012 by

Sorted in Friendship, Questions

Hi Will, Thanks for writing to AlterHeros.  If I understand your question correctly, you are developping feelings for one of your friends, who is a lesbian woman, and you are having negative feelings about the outcome of a disclosure.  All of that is "giving you headaches", as you are saying.  For ... Read more.
(Français) Comment savoir : Amitié ou amour ?

(Français) Comment savoir : Amitié ou amour ?

Question asked by Justine (Femme de 15 ans, Canada)

Question answered on January 31, 2012 by

Sorted in Friendship, Self-esteem, Questions, Relationships

Bonjour Justine, D'abord, je te remercie de la confiance que tu nous accordes. Premièrement, tu dis entretenir une relation privilégiée avec une amie, qui serait peut-être pour vous deux, une relation plus sérieuse qu'une simple amitié. D'un côté, je ne sais pas si cette fille est la première ou l'une des premières filles ... Read more.
I am in love with a friend !

I am in love with a friend !

Question asked by rod (18 questioning man, United States of America)

Question answered on June 27, 2011 by

Sorted in Love, Questions

Hi Rod thanks for your question, This is a very common issue, because usually sexual relationships develop because you like a person, in the case of friendship, especially deep friendship is also because you like the person and being with them a lot. There is a difference between ... Read more.
Will watching transexual porn compromise my hetero lifestyle?

Will watching transexual porn compromise my hetero lifestyle?

Question asked by Matt (22 years old heterosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on June 24, 2011 by

Sorted in Comfortable in your skin, En questionnement, Questions, Sex

Hi Matt, Thanks for writing in with your question. It can be confusing when you realize you are interested in something you may have otherwise thought of as abnormal, but let me say that being turned on my transsexual porn is not abnormal at all. People are turned on ... Read more.
I came out to my parents as lesbian but they don’t believe me and my friends rejected me. What do I do now?

I came out to my parents as lesbian but they don’t believe me and my friends rejected me. What do I do now?

Question asked by Jamie (14 questioning woman, Canada)

Question answered on June 22, 2011 by

Sorted in Friendship, Family, Coming out, Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions, Resources, Coming out

Hi Jamie, Thanks for writing in to us at AlterHéros.  From your post, it sounds like you’re struggling with your coming out to your parents and close friends as lesbian and that you’re trying to figure out what to do now and how to get help. First of all, a great big ... Read more.
How to make him discover that I am gay ?

How to make him discover that I am gay ?

Question asked by How to seal the deal! (17 homosexual man, Canada)

Question answered on March 19, 2011 by

Sorted in Questions, Relationships

Hi Cool Bean, Thanks for the question. It can be tricky meeting people when you first come out, but it's definitely not impossible.  There are no clear answers or ways to talk to someone, but there are some things you can keep in mind when talking with someone you're potentially interested ... Read more.
I’m afraid my boyfriend will act out his fantasies.

I’m afraid my boyfriend will act out his fantasies.

Question asked by Anne (27 years old woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on January 19, 2011 by

Sorted in Questions, Sex, Sex & relationships

Hi Anne, Thank you for coming to AlterHeros with your question. From your statement above, you explain that you have recently found out about your boyfriend's sexual fantasies and desires to watch transsexual (Male to Female) pornography. You are frightened that your boyfriend will act on his sexual fantasies. Additionally, you are questioning ... Read more.
Am I still a lesbian if I’m attracted to my transgender friend?

Am I still a lesbian if I’m attracted to my transgender friend?

Question asked by Sara (22 years old homosexual woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on January 16, 2011 by

Sorted in Friendship, Love, Discovery, Age difference, En questionnement, Questions, Relationships, Transsexuality, Lesbian living, Trans living

Hi Sara, You say you have been with the same girlfriend for a while now.  How long is that to you? Some people might think that 6 months is a long time, others might say 2 years. You want to know if you are still considered a lesbian if you ... Read more.
He reacted well when I came out, but I still don’t know if he likes me romantically

He reacted well when I came out, but I still don’t know if he likes me romantically

Question asked by John (20 years old man from France, France)

Question answered on November 22, 2010 by

Sorted in Love, Questions

Hi John, Thanks for coming to us with your question. I'm so pleased to hear that we helped you the first time you contacted us! I'll try my best to help you with your new problem. You seem to have fallen for a friend of yours and you're not sure how he feels ... Read more.
My strong feelings continue – should I tell her so?

My strong feelings continue – should I tell her so?

Question asked by christy (16 years old woman from Peru, Peru)

Question answered on October 2, 2010 by

Sorted in Love, Bisexuality, Questions

Hi Christy! My name is Tilly and first of all I want to say I'm so glad that you've reached out to us at Alterheros! I'd be more than happy to try to help you in any way I can. It sounds like you're in a pretty difficult situation right now. I ... Read more.
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