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I’m a guy and I’m in love with my lesbian best friend. Should we have sex together?

I’m a guy and I’m in love with my lesbian best friend. Should we have sex together?

Question asked by Joe (Homme de 20 ans)

Question answered on July 28, 2015 by

Sorted in Friendship, Love, Questions, Relationships, Sex, Sex & relationships

Hi Joe, thank you for contacting AlterHeros with your question. You've been in love with your best friend for three years now. You two have a great connection. She is attracted to women. You recently made out together and she also told you that she thought of having sex with you. ... Read more.
I’ve come out to two of my friends. It has been really hard for me and I don’t know what to do about everyone else…

I’ve come out to two of my friends. It has been really hard for me and I don’t know what to do about everyone else…

Question asked by

Question answered on March 30, 2015 by

Sorted in Friendship, Family, Questions, Coming out, Coming out

Hi Stressed, First of all, kudos to you on accepting yourself in your beautiful entirety, and coming out to your friends.  These are not easy things to do and you should be very proud of yourself! It is always a difficult situation to come out to less supportive family members.  Something to ... Read more.
(Français) Je la déteste, mais j’hésite à la quitter

(Français) Je la déteste, mais j’hésite à la quitter

Question asked by Milly (Femme en questionnement de 34 ans, Martinique)

Question answered on November 4, 2014 by

Sorted in Questions, Relations de couple, Loneliness

Bonjour Milly, Merci de nous faire confiance en nous écrivant. La situation que tu nous décris est complexe et difficile, mais j'espère pouvoir te donner quelques point de réflexion. À ce que je peux comprendre, toi et ta conjointe n'avez clairement pas le même projet de vie. Elle est casanière et ... Read more.
I have sexual fantasies about my father when my partner goes down on me

I have sexual fantasies about my father when my partner goes down on me

Question asked by ElizaM (30 questioning woman, United States of America)

Question answered on December 27, 2013 by

Sorted in Questions, Sex, Sex & relationships

Hi ElizaM, First of all I want to say thank you for trusting AlterHeros by writing to us about this difficulty you are living. We also apologize about the delay for this answer. What you are describing must be very disturbing to you and not easy to deal with. If I understood ... Read more.
I am starting to have feelings for my lesbian friend…

I am starting to have feelings for my lesbian friend…

Question asked by Will (19 man, Canada)

Question answered on February 19, 2012 by

Sorted in Friendship, Questions

Hi Will, Thanks for writing to AlterHeros.  If I understand your question correctly, you are developping feelings for one of your friends, who is a lesbian woman, and you are having negative feelings about the outcome of a disclosure.  All of that is "giving you headaches", as you are saying.  For ... Read more.
(Français) Comment savoir : Amitié ou amour ?

(Français) Comment savoir : Amitié ou amour ?

Question asked by Justine (Femme de 15 ans, Canada)

Question answered on January 31, 2012 by

Sorted in Friendship, Self-esteem, Questions, Relationships

Bonjour Justine, D'abord, je te remercie de la confiance que tu nous accordes. Premièrement, tu dis entretenir une relation privilégiée avec une amie, qui serait peut-être pour vous deux, une relation plus sérieuse qu'une simple amitié. D'un côté, je ne sais pas si cette fille est la première ou l'une des premières filles ... Read more.
I am in love with a friend !

I am in love with a friend !

Question asked by rod (18 questioning man, United States of America)

Question answered on June 27, 2011 by

Sorted in Love, Questions

Hi Rod thanks for your question, This is a very common issue, because usually sexual relationships develop because you like a person, in the case of friendship, especially deep friendship is also because you like the person and being with them a lot. There is a difference between ... Read more.
Will watching transexual porn compromise my hetero lifestyle?

Will watching transexual porn compromise my hetero lifestyle?

Question asked by Matt (22 years old heterosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on June 24, 2011 by

Sorted in Comfortable in your skin, En questionnement, Questions, Sex

Hi Matt, Thanks for writing in with your question. It can be confusing when you realize you are interested in something you may have otherwise thought of as abnormal, but let me say that being turned on my transsexual porn is not abnormal at all. People are turned on ... Read more.
I came out to my parents as lesbian but they don’t believe me and my friends rejected me.  What do I do now?

I came out to my parents as lesbian but they don’t believe me and my friends rejected me. What do I do now?

Question asked by Jamie (14 questioning woman, Canada)

Question answered on June 22, 2011 by

Sorted in Friendship, Family, Coming out, Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions, Resources, Coming out

Hi Jamie, Thanks for writing in to us at AlterHéros.  From your post, it sounds like you’re struggling with your coming out to your parents and close friends as lesbian and that you’re trying to figure out what to do now and how to get help. First of all, a great big ... Read more.
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