Sex & relationships

(Français) Je la déteste, mais j’hésite à la quitter

(Français) Je la déteste, mais j’hésite à la quitter

Question asked by Milly (Femme en questionnement de 34 ans, Martinique)

Question answered on November 4, 2014 by

Sorted in Questions, Relations de couple, Loneliness

Bonjour Milly, Merci de nous faire confiance en nous écrivant. La situation que tu nous décris est complexe et difficile, mais j'espère pouvoir te donner quelques point de réflexion. À ce que je peux comprendre, toi et ta conjointe n'avez clairement pas le même projet de vie. Elle est casanière et ... Read more.
I have sexual fantasies about my father when my partner goes down on me

I have sexual fantasies about my father when my partner goes down on me

Question asked by ElizaM (30 questioning woman, United States of America)

Question answered on December 27, 2013 by

Sorted in Questions, Sex, Sex & relationships

Hi ElizaM, First of all I want to say thank you for trusting AlterHeros by writing to us about this difficulty you are living. We also apologize about the delay for this answer. What you are describing must be very disturbing to you and not easy to deal with. If I understood ... Read more.
I am starting to have feelings for my lesbian friend…

I am starting to have feelings for my lesbian friend…

Question asked by Will (19 man, Canada)

Question answered on February 19, 2012 by

Sorted in Friendship, Questions

Hi Will, Thanks for writing to AlterHeros.  If I understand your question correctly, you are developping feelings for one of your friends, who is a lesbian woman, and you are having negative feelings about the outcome of a disclosure.  All of that is "giving you headaches", as you are saying.  For ... Read more.
(Français) Comment savoir : Amitié ou amour ?

(Français) Comment savoir : Amitié ou amour ?

Question asked by Justine (Femme de 15 ans, Canada)

Question answered on January 31, 2012 by

Sorted in Friendship, Self-esteem, Questions, Relationships

Bonjour Justine, D'abord, je te remercie de la confiance que tu nous accordes. Premièrement, tu dis entretenir une relation privilégiée avec une amie, qui serait peut-être pour vous deux, une relation plus sérieuse qu'une simple amitié. D'un côté, je ne sais pas si cette fille est la première ou l'une des premières filles ... Read more.
I am in love with a friend !

I am in love with a friend !

Question asked by rod (18 questioning man, United States of America)

Question answered on June 27, 2011 by

Sorted in Love, Questions

Hi Rod thanks for your question, This is a very common issue, because usually sexual relationships develop because you like a person, in the case of friendship, especially deep friendship is also because you like the person and being with them a lot. There is a difference between ... Read more.
Will watching transexual porn compromise my hetero lifestyle?

Will watching transexual porn compromise my hetero lifestyle?

Question asked by Matt (22 years old heterosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on June 24, 2011 by

Sorted in Comfortable in your skin, En questionnement, Questions, Sex

Hi Matt, Thanks for writing in with your question. It can be confusing when you realize you are interested in something you may have otherwise thought of as abnormal, but let me say that being turned on my transsexual porn is not abnormal at all. People are turned on ... Read more.
I came out to my parents as lesbian but they don’t believe me and my friends rejected me.  What do I do now?

I came out to my parents as lesbian but they don’t believe me and my friends rejected me. What do I do now?

Question asked by Jamie (14 questioning woman, Canada)

Question answered on June 22, 2011 by

Sorted in Friendship, Family, Coming out, Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions, Resources, Coming out

Hi Jamie, Thanks for writing in to us at AlterHéros.  From your post, it sounds like you’re struggling with your coming out to your parents and close friends as lesbian and that you’re trying to figure out what to do now and how to get help. First of all, a great big ... Read more.
How to make him discover that I am gay ?

How to make him discover that I am gay ?

Question asked by How to seal the deal! (17 homosexual man, Canada)

Question answered on March 19, 2011 by

Sorted in Questions, Relationships

Hi Cool Bean, Thanks for the question. It can be tricky meeting people when you first come out, but it's definitely not impossible.  There are no clear answers or ways to talk to someone, but there are some things you can keep in mind when talking with someone you're potentially interested ... Read more.
I’m afraid my boyfriend will act out his fantasies.

I’m afraid my boyfriend will act out his fantasies.

Question asked by Anne (27 years old woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on January 19, 2011 by

Sorted in Questions, Sex, Sex & relationships

Hi Anne, Thank you for coming to AlterHeros with your question. From your statement above, you explain that you have recently found out about your boyfriend's sexual fantasies and desires to watch transsexual (Male to Female) pornography. You are frightened that your boyfriend will act on his sexual fantasies. Additionally, you are questioning ... Read more.
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