Hi Rod thanks for your question,
This is a very common issue, because usually sexual relationships develop because you like a person, in the case of friendship, especially deep friendship is also because you like the person and being with them a lot. There is a difference between ... Read more.
You say you have been with the same girlfriend for a while now. How long is that to you? Some people might think that 6 months is a long time, others might say 2 years.
You want to know if you are still considered a lesbian if you ... Read more.
Thanks for coming to us with your question. I'm so pleased to hear that we
helped you the first time you contacted us! I'll try my best to help you with your
You seem to have fallen for a friend of yours and you're not sure how he feels ... Read more.
My name is Tilly and first of all I want to say I'm so glad that you've reached out to us at Alterheros! I'd be more than happy to try to help you in any way I can.
It sounds like you're in a pretty difficult situation right now. I ... Read more.
I don't believe this is a weird question at all; your point of view may or may not be affected by your previous dating experiences, but that put aside, there are 2 possibilities to your feelings:
1) You may feel what is described as 'aromantic', a.k.a. that you don't feel ... Read more.
First of all, thank you very much for reaching out to Alterheros. It takes a lot of courage to ask for help, especially when it comes to dealing with this kind of personal and sensitive issue.
I do understand that you have strong feelings for this person that you mentioned. ... Read more.
Once I had a huge crush on a heterosexual friend and I still think about her years after. I understand what you feel the inability to continue this way. It is torturous when you keep such a strong emotion to yourself or when your love feelings are not ... Read more.
I wonder if human relationships are fixable like broken cars or chairs. Sometimes it seems possible, but sometimes there's simply no magical formula, program or short cut. That's why relationships dazzle and puzzle.
It is understandable that you would try and fight for every possibility to have her back ... Read more.
If I understand it well, you're in love with someone who's already engaged and you don't know if and how to let her know of your feelings.
It is a really delicate situation, you should carefully consider the consequences. You say that she's been a lesbian for only 3 years. ... Read more.
You're confused about your sexual orientation and your romantic future. It's ok to not have everything figured out. It takes some people longer than others to understand themselves.
You say that you were not sexually attracted to this girl you met on the internet and that you felt nothing when she ... Read more.
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