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Unfortunately, I don't think there is any easy solution to your problem. If your friend has told you he is gay, and therefore not interested in having a romantic relationship with you, then it's something you will have to accept, because being gay is ... Read more.
Let me begin by saying I think a lot of homosexual people go through a period of uncertainty ( or denial ). This is not necessarily to say that its a bad thing, but rather it makes the final revelation all the more meaningful.
I think you need to ... Read more.
Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. It sounds like you're in a tough spot. It's not uncommon to develop romantic feelings for a close friend and it is indeed an even more difficult situation when you discover they do not feel the same as you ... Read more.
Hi Sammy, thank you for your question.
It is difficult to experience attraction to two people, particularly when they are two people whom you love and you don't want to hurt. Being that one of them is your boyfriend and the other is your best friend, it is very important that ... Read more.
You were as truthful as you could be with your friend which is a deep sign of respect towards yourself, and he may or may not see it that way. Regardless of his reaction, you have to take pride in having stood up for what you believe in. Love ... Read more.
Thanks for writing in to us again at AlterHéros. So it looks like your friend let the cat out of the bag and told Jamie that you like her. If you are sure that she doesn't feel the same way about you, then it's great to hear ... Read more.
Relationships can be tricky. Although I don't have all the details about your relationship, I have some ideas about what might be going on with your boyfriend. You say that you tell your boyfriend how you feel, but not exactly. I get the feeling you mean that you are ... Read more.
First, I would like to thank you for trusting us and writing to us.
It can be very painful when your romantic love to someone ceases to be returned especially when, like in your situation, love was reciprocal in the beginning.
I understand how you still have strong feelings for Zak ... Read more.
Hi Molly, and thanks for your question.
Thank you for your question. I can understand your distress in the context of this uncomfortable situation.
From what you've said about your friend having a delayed reaction and telling you to consider the feelings of others involved....I am guessing perhaps one of two things ... Read more.
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