Love
I am in love with my gay friend !
Hi Maricor,
Thank you for writing to Alterhéros.
Unfortunately, I don't think there is any easy solution to your problem. If your friend has told you he is gay, and therefore not interested in having a romantic relationship with you, then it's something you will have to accept, because being gay is ... Read more.
I want an idyllic life but not being with this girl would tear me apart.
Hi Sally,
Let me begin by saying I think a lot of homosexual people go through a period of uncertainty ( or denial ). This is not necessarily to say that its a bad thing, but rather it makes the final revelation all the more meaningful.
I think you need to ... Read more.
i’m a guy in love with my lesbian best friend
Hi Rob,
Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. It sounds like you're in a tough spot. It's not uncommon to develop romantic feelings for a close friend and it is indeed an even more difficult situation when you discover they do not feel the same as you ... Read more.
How do I juggle my feelings for my boyfriend and my best friend?
Hi Sammy, thank you for your question.
It is difficult to experience attraction to two people, particularly when they are two people whom you love and you don't want to hurt. Being that one of them is your boyfriend and the other is your best friend, it is very important that ... Read more.
Did I cross a line by telling my friend I have fallen for him?
Bao Le,
You were as truthful as you could be with your friend which is a deep sign of respect towards yourself, and he may or may not see it that way. Regardless of his reaction, you have to take pride in having stood up for what you believe in. Love ... Read more.
How do I find out if she is gay/straight/bi?
Hi Flo thanks for sending in this question,
The friendship dynamic is a complex human relation; where does friendship end and lust or love begin? Your question resembles the Q&A answered by Hillary from AlterHeros I'm a girl. So is she. How can i be sure she likes me?
Hillary explains ... Read more.
Why does it hurt so much finding out she doesn’t return my sentiments?
Hey itachi,
Thanks for writing in to us again at AlterHéros. So it looks like your friend let the cat out of the bag and told Jamie that you like her. If you are sure that she doesn't feel the same way about you, then it's great to hear ... Read more.
Not like it used to be – how can I fix my relationship?
Hi Anonymous,
Relationships can be tricky. Although I don't have all the details about your relationship, I have some ideas about what might be going on with your boyfriend. You say that you tell your boyfriend how you feel, but not exactly. I get the feeling you mean that you are ... Read more.
I am heartbroken
Hi Kandace,
First, I would like to thank you for trusting us and writing to us.
It can be very painful when your romantic love to someone ceases to be returned especially when, like in your situation, love was reciprocal in the beginning.
I understand how you still have strong feelings for Zak ... Read more.
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