Dating
Bag Him Up
The sun has finally arrived and all us single gay boys are suddenly hit with a burning need to bag a man. Believe me sweeties, it's going to reach epidemic levels and to stay ahead of the race you're going to need some sly tricks up your sleeve. Forget all those lengthy beauty routines and [...]
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Top Ten Rejection Lines
Where someone is letting you down gently what exactly is running through their mind? Here's our pick of the top ten rejection lines and what they actually mean! 10) I think of you as a friend. (You`re terminally ugly.) 9) There`s a slight difference in our ages. (You`re terminally old and ugly.) I`m not [...]
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Scum On The Dancefloor
Weekend lunch with the posse. An understandably irate Stephen was accounting his close encounter of the scum kind at the club the night before. Now, we've heard the same story repeated in a thousand permutations a million times before but we nevertheless indulged in his ranting with empathetic hearts and sympathetic ears. Jabbing his fork [...]
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What Does a Gay Man Want? – The Heaven & Hell of Internet Dating
I “married” my college sweetheart at the University of Chicago when I was 19, and we were together for 20 years until HIV took him from me 10 years ago. Since then, I’ve had two intense relationships that lasted several years apiece. But about six years ago, I subscribed to AOL, with its virtual supermarket [...]
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How to Net Yourself a Lesbian
If there's one thing all lesbians can agree on without having a debate is that gay men have it good when it comes to picking up potential partners, boyfriends, and more often than not, fuck buddies. My gay male friends who are not at all familiar with lesbian culture never fail to gasp in disbelief [...]
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Be Seen in the ‘Scene’
The Scene is the word mostly used in the gay community if you're into clubbing and partying. And mostly the people that you see in the scene are those who is openly out. The Scene or some called it Gay Community is where everyone can belong and feel accepted and where everyone can get help [...]
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Lesbian Dating: Life Before the U-Haul
We Can Rush Our Relationships Why is it that lesbians have such a hard time with dating? You know, going out with one or more women, maybe having sex, and not having to arrive at any permanent or long-term decisions about the nature of the relationship. Why are we in such a hurry to make [...]
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How To Survive Your First Visit To a Gay Bar
Going to a gay or lesbian bar or club for the first time can be intimidating. This step-by-step guide will show you the ropes. Difficulty Level: Average Time Required: Varies Here’s How: Choose a place. Consult your local gay newspaper or an online guide to find bars in your area. Choose a day. Note [...]
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How To Cruise a Guy On The Street
Flirting with other guys is easy, once you know this simple technique. Difficulty Level: Easy Time Required: Varies Here’s How: Go to a place where you’re likely to find other gay men. Start walking. When an attractive guy passes by you, attempt to make eye contact. If you make eye contact, don’t stop. Walk [...]
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Équipe AlterHéros
Julie-Maude Beauchesne
François Paquette
Dee Gamme
Samuel A.
Marion Téjédor
Article published on September 22, 2002 in YouthOne.com by Ruth & Naomi Achus
Sorted in Dating, Dossiers, Internet Worries
Most people shudder when they think of online dating. Most think you must be at the end of your rope to attempt such a feat. One pictures an unattractive person, 20 years older on the other line, who is not only charming, but a liar. Refusing to accept this stigma, we decided to set out [...]
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