Relationships
(Français) Comment savoir : Amitié ou amour ?
Bonjour Justine,
D'abord, je te remercie de la confiance que tu nous accordes.
Premièrement, tu dis entretenir une relation privilégiée avec une amie, qui serait peut-être pour vous deux, une relation plus sérieuse qu'une simple amitié.
D'un côté, je ne sais pas si cette fille est la première ou l'une des premières filles ... Read more.
How to make him discover that I am gay ?
Hi Cool Bean,
Thanks for the question. It can be tricky meeting people when you first come out, but it's definitely not impossible. There are no clear answers or ways to talk to someone, but there are some things you can keep in mind when talking with someone you're potentially interested ... Read more.
Am I still a lesbian if I’m attracted to my transgender friend?
Hi Sara,
You say you have been with the same girlfriend for a while now. How long is that to you? Some people might think that 6 months is a long time, others might say 2 years.
You want to know if you are still considered a lesbian if you ... Read more.
It might be hard for me to trust bisexuals now
Dear Chantelle,
Thank you for writing to Alterheros. I know it is a very tough time for you right now. However, I would like to say that life has its ups and downs, and we all go through making and breaking relationships at some point in our lives. It is ... Read more.
Even through mixed messages I think she likes me
Hi Jess, thanks for coming to Alterheros with your question.
I understand that you are frustrated about your relationship with your friend and trying to find out whether she reciprocates the feelings that you have for her. I will assume that you are more or less ok with your own feelings ... Read more.
How can I get her to give me another chance?
Hi Ashley,
I wonder if human relationships are fixable like broken cars or chairs. Sometimes it seems possible, but sometimes there's simply no magical formula, program or short cut. That's why relationships dazzle and puzzle.
It is understandable that you would try and fight for every possibility to have her back ... Read more.
I met this guy, but I don’t know if I should tell him my feelings
Hi John!
Thanks for taking the time to write to Alterheros about your dilemma. It's always hard to let someone know of your feelings when you're not sure how they will be received.
As you know, your choices pretty much are either to tell him or not. If you tell him, best ... Read more.
My boyfriend won’t stop masturbating with online men!
Hi Marie,
Thanks for writing to us at AlterHéros. It sounds like the fact that your long term boyfriend is masturbating online with other men is causing you a great deal of concern. Notably, you did not mention two things in your post: 1) whether or not this ... Read more.
I snooped in my boyfriend’s phone – is he cheating?
Hi Jessica,
Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. Finding information about your partner in that way is always such a hard situation. I definitely support that you want to confront him about it, because cheating is not okay and you deserve better than that. A few things:
1. ... Read more.
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