Sex
Will watching transexual porn compromise my hetero lifestyle?
Hi Matt,
Thanks for writing in with your question.
It can be confusing when you realize you are interested in something you may have otherwise thought of as abnormal, but let me say that being turned on my transsexual porn is not abnormal at all. People are turned on ... Read more.
I’m afraid my boyfriend will act out his fantasies.
Hi Anne,
Thank you for coming to AlterHeros with your question.
From your statement above, you explain that you have recently found out about your boyfriend's sexual fantasies and desires to watch transsexual (Male to Female) pornography. You are frightened that your boyfriend will act on his sexual fantasies. Additionally, you are questioning ... Read more.
I’m sure I’m attracted to men, but i’m repulsed by the sight of a penis!
Hi Sean,
Seems like you have a lot going on. You say that you have always been attracted to men, but the sight of a penis repulses you.
What is it about men that you are attracted to? Are you attracted to men in a sexual way? Being repulsed by ... Read more.
Is it normal to be erect and flaccid, alternately?
Hi Edward,
Thanks for your question - it is extremely relevant to most teenage boys and young men regardless of sexual orientation. Un-provoked and frequent erections are something that is very common in young pre-teen and teenage boys; usually uncontrolled erection start around age 11 and can last well through ... Read more.
My obsessive fear about turning gay ruined my sex drive
Hello Craig,
Thanks for writing in to us at AlterHéros. It sounds like you're having a really rough time right now regarding your sexual orientation. From all the things you've said in your post, it really does NOT sound like you're gay. Though it is true that ... Read more.
Why can’t I have an orgasm without disturbing fantasies?
Dear Katherine,
Thank you for your question.
From what you write, I hear a few items that concern you:
(1) your concern that your only way to have an orgasm is to focus on a fantasy, rather than being able to enjoy sex with your partner (and previous partners)
(2) your worry that there ... Read more.
Images of my father haunt me during sex
Dear Alexandra,
I would definitely recommend seeking out a qualified therapist to assist you on this one, since you say the visions are starting to affect your daily life. While random things often pop into people's heads while they're having sex, this type of repeated and unwanted image isn't something that ... Read more.
My boyfriend is acting weird, I think he is sleeping with men and women
Hi Debbie,
From what I understand, your situation is really not easy. You are with your boyfriend for the last five years, and you really love him. But, you saw that he answered ads on the net for one night stand with other man, and you think he is ... Read more.
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