Sex

Am I desperate for sex ?

Question asked by john (15 years old heterosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on May 3, 2006 by François Paquette

Hi John ! We live in a very sexual society, where everyone seems to be pushed to have sexual relationships. You have all your life (you're only 15, has you say) to experiment everything, and I saw many people of 20 years old that had experienced everything and were desperate ... Read more.

I want sex with guys, but to have a girlfriend. Is it normal ?

Question asked by Someone (15 years old heterosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on May 3, 2006 by Andrea

Sorted in Coming out, Questions, Sex

Hello, Thank you for writing to Alterheros. To answer your question -- only you can really know what your interest in men and women means. It may mean that you are bisexual, or in time you may come to decide that you are gay or straight. It can ... Read more.

Is it wrong to have sex at my age ?

Question asked by catherine (16 years old questioning woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on April 23, 2006 by François Paquette

Sorted in Questions, Relationships, Sex

Hi Catherine ! Thanks for your questions. For the first : "first time with not so pain", the best thing to do is to relax, to try it slowly... the more you are nervous, the more possibilities you get to have pain ! Use, each time you have a sexual relationship, a ... Read more.

Is it normal that i like girls but i don’t want to have sex with them ?

Question asked by silvia (19 years old questioning woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on April 18, 2006 by Andrea

Sorted in Questions, Sex

Hi Silvia, Thanks for writing to Alterheros. I think, a short answer to your question about whether it is normal to like women but not want to have sex, is, it depends. Maybe you could reflect a bit on why it is that you are not interested in sex? ... Read more.

Whats happening with me ?

Question asked by Roy (25 years old questioning man from Ireland, Ireland)

Question answered on March 29, 2006 by sabrina prégent

Sorted in Questions, Sex, Travestites

Hi Roy, It is difficult to answer to your question but I will try to enumerate several possibilities to help you find your answer. You will then have to think about your preferences, your relationship with your girlfriend, your self-confidence, your fantasies, your feelings,... and clarify you thoughts so you will ... Read more.

I love a girl, but not in a sexual way, is that unusual ?

Question asked by Eric (16 years old homosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on March 7, 2006 by sabrina prégent

Sorted in Love, Questions, Sex

Hi Eric, Frequently, the sexual dimension is present in a love relationship. We all heard about couples that, after a few years, dont feel as attracted as at beginning. For some people, love without sexuality isn't love. For others, sexuality is only one of the relationship's dimension. Concerning your question, you ... Read more.

I have many sexual problems

Question asked by obaid (23 years old questioning man from Pakistan, Pakistan)

Question answered on October 7, 2005 by Équipe AlterHéros

Sorted in Questions, Sex

Hi Obaid, Thanks for your question. First of all I invite you to see a doctor or a medical professionnal for any physical illness. After that, I think that you should take a look at your eating habits, eating three time a day and eating healthy is very important for your body ... Read more.

What happens if there is blood?

Question asked by keiran (25 years old questioning man from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on July 20, 2005 by Équipe AlterHéros

Sorted in Questions, Health, Sex

Hi Keiran, Thanks for your question. If there is blood after/during anal sex that could mean there was damage done to the rectum during penetration. I would suggest going to get medical attention immediatly. the damage may or may not require stiches. To avoid damage to the rectum during anal sex, use lube and a condom. ... Read more.

I have lost my sexual power

Question asked by zeeshan (29 years old questioning man from Pakistan, Pakistan)

Question answered on July 6, 2005 by Équipe AlterHéros

Sorted in Questions, Sex

Hi Zeeshan, Many people experience changes in their level of desire throughout their lifetime. Much like physical and emotional health, desire is affected by all sorts of things including stress, how much you've been sleeping or eating or how comfortable you are feeling with your partner. If you are ... Read more.

Religion and sexual orientation

Question asked by Dave (15 years old questioning man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on July 6, 2005 by Équipe AlterHéros

Sorted in Bisexuality, Questions, Sex

Hi Dave, It's true that there are many conflicting ideas about homosexuality and bisexuality in the world. It is sometimes hard to make sense of it all! Here are some ideas that might help you make sense of things... Bisexuality, homosexuality and heterosexuality are simply 3 different sexual orientations. ... Read more.