Am I gay, lesbian, bi or trans?

I feel more comfortable around women than men. Am I a lesbian?

Question asked by Sandy (25 questioning, Canada)

Question answered on July 23, 2011 by Kelley R

Sorted in Definitions, En questionnement, Gay & Lesbian, Questions, Am I gay, lesbian, bi or trans?

Hi Sandy, Thank you for writing to Alterheros with your questions. You bring up a few different ideas and concerns about your sexuality and whether or not it has been influenced by witnessing other people’s abusive relationships. You say that you feel threatened by men and in turn, prefer to be around ... Read more.

Will watching transexual porn compromise my hetero lifestyle?

Question asked by Matt (22 years old heterosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on June 24, 2011 by Brad Newman

Sorted in Comfortable in your skin, En questionnement, Questions, Sex

Hi Matt, Thanks for writing in with your question. It can be confusing when you realize you are interested in something you may have otherwise thought of as abnormal, but let me say that being turned on my transsexual porn is not abnormal at all. People are turned on ... Read more.

Is it unusual to start being attracted by same-sex in my mid-30s ?

Question asked by Canadian Joe (35 bisexual man, Canada)

Question answered on March 19, 2011 by Evelyn Kuang

Sorted in Bisexuality, Questions

Hi Joe, Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. I am happy for you that you are at the next step of your self-discovery. You should not feel alone in your discovery, discovering and or re-discovering ones sexuality is a dynamic ongoing process. This is because a person's sexuality is fluid ... Read more.

I am aroused by pictures of female genitals, is it normal ?

Question asked by maria, 23 year old female (23 questioning woman, Poland)

Question answered on February 27, 2011 by Hillary Greer

Sorted in Questions, Am I gay, lesbian, bi or trans?

Hi Maria, From what I understand you are confused by the fact that you can be sexually aroused by both male and female bodies (this has been happening to varying degrees over your lifetime), but you do not want to have sex with women. Now you are wondering if this means ... Read more.

Am I still a lesbian if I’m attracted to my transgender friend?

Question asked by Sara (22 years old homosexual woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on January 16, 2011 by Suzanne

Sorted in Friendship, Love, Discovery, Age difference, En questionnement, Questions, Relationships, Transsexuality, Lesbian living, Trans living

Hi Sara, You say you have been with the same girlfriend for a while now. How long is that to you? Some people might think that 6 months is a long time, others might say 2 years. You want to know if you are still considered a lesbian if you ... Read more.

I get more excited about women, but would prefer to have a boyfriend

Question asked by Nicole (15 years old questioning woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on December 6, 2010 by Kelley R

Sorted in Bisexuality, Causes of homosexuality / sexual orientation, Questions

Hello Nicole, First off, I would like to commend you on standing up for gay rights and supporting the gay community! I know it is not an easy thing to do to stand up to your peers and confront them about something important to you. In your statement, you said that ... Read more.

I’m wondering if I’m bi but I accept whoever I am!

Question asked by Nad (17 years old woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on December 2, 2010 by Hillary Greer

Sorted in Bisexuality, En questionnement, Questions

Hi Nad, thanks for writing to Alterheros with your question! I understand your confusion about your sexuality and your desire to figure it all out! I think that it is wonderful and important that you aren't particularly bothered by what the answer' might be, and that from what I understand, you ... Read more.

I don’t feel grown up at age 28: I don’t know if I’m gay/bi/straight

Question asked by Jamie Archer (28 years old questioning man from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on November 25, 2010 by Suzanne

Sorted in En questionnement, Self-esteem, Questions

Hi Jamie, First off you are by far not inferior, and not not grown up, due to your inexperience. I promise you are not the first to be in a situation like the one you are in, or at least similar to it. Many times men that are more in ... Read more.

If I could pass, would my family support me if I decided I was transgender?

Question asked by clay (21 years old questioning man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on November 18, 2010 by Kay Wo

Sorted in Acceptance, Questions, Travestites

Hello Clay, Thanks for writing in to us at AlterHéros. From the sounds of your post, it seems that you have become increasingly depressed over the years regarding your strong feelings towards potentially being a woman inside. You also mention that if you were able to pass as one, you would ... Read more.

Am I bi? I like a girl on Facebook who dresses like a guy!

Question asked by Calioppe (16 years old questioning woman from Indonesia, Indonesia)

Question answered on November 9, 2010 by Brad Newman

Sorted in Acceptance, Bisexuality, Questions

Hi Calioppe, From your letter, it sounds like you may be bi, but that isn't something you should be worried about. Many people are bisexual and feel attracted to or are drawn to members of both sexes. Also, your feelings towards both guys and girls are likely not something ... Read more.

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