Acceptance
I didn’t choose my orientation but I doubt it is genetic.
Hi John,
Understanding and questioning one's sexual attractions can be a very complex and sometimes, confusing time; I appreciate that you've sought out some help to clarify your questions.
By your statement, I understand that you believe you were born straight and have grown up being attracted to women, but you have ... Read more.
I was heart-broken by guys, now I like lesbian porn, how can I change that?
Hi Rebecca,
Thanks so much for submitting your question to Alterheros! I understand that this must be a confusing time for you. In answer to your question, there are a few things to consider. First and foremost, your happiness, safety and health are of utmost importance - whether ... Read more.
My country has rejected and mistreated me because I’m gay.
Dear Henry,
Being gay is definitely not bad or immoral, though many people in countries around the world may believe this to be true. Nigeria is not known for its gay-friendliness; in fact, both gay and lesbian same-sex encounters are illegal within the country, and offenses are punishable either by up ... Read more.
I think I’m bi but not sure if I accept myself for who I am.
Hi there,
Thank you for coming to AlterHeros with your question.
It sounds like you are beginning to become aware of your attraction to girls and you are wondering if, and why, you are bisexual. Further, you are unsure on how to deal with being a bisexual and wish to meet ... Read more.
Should I ignore the sick feeling I get when kissing my boyfriend?
Dear Lani,
Two years is a long time for a guy to wait for a girl to kiss him, and while I sympathize with this guy and understand your concern for him, I think that now would definitely be a good time to be honest with him about your sexuality. You've ... Read more.
MY hormones! AH! I don’t want a label, but where do I fit in?
Hi Jack,
Thank you for your question. If I understand correctly, you are struggling to understand yourself in terms of your sexual orientation.
From what you write, it sounds to me like you are quite attuned to your emotions and you analyze events and your reactions to them in detail in order ... Read more.
How do I get gaydar?
Hi John,
Thanks so much for writing in to us at AlterHéros. It sounds like you're trying to find out whether or not your friend is bisexual or gay and if there is a way to figure it out by using gaydar. Firstly, you should know that gaydar does ... Read more.
How to keep my friend even if she is bisexual ?
Hello Sierra,
Thanks for writing in to us at AlterHéros. You've covered a lot of stuff in your post so let's list out the issues that you've brought up:
1. You found out that your best friend is bisexual and this is something you cannot accept;
... Read more.
Is it wrong to marry a woman if I’m certain I’m gay?
Hello Matt,
Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. I understand you're trying to work through a difficult issue. I think its important to note that there is no definitive answer of what is clearly right or wrong to do in this situation, whether you choose a man or ... Read more.
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