I understand you need to meet others transsexual people. However, I don't know where you live so it is difficult to me to refer you to a support group near of where you live. If I knew in wich Canada's province you live, it would have been easier.
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It is difficult to overcome fears and we need courage to do it. It's normal to worried about other's reactions, new steps in our life and about things we don't know. Moreover, we cannot be sure of which events will happen and it can scare us a lot.
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I understand that you are stressed because of a recent attraction to guys. Your desire to experiment with guys has raised some fears that you may not be as sexually confident as you would like to be approaching guys. You are also worried ... Read more.
Its not always easy to live with homosexuality and religion at the same time. Particularly when the family and the area is very religious. But about the depression, you maybe should see a doctor and tell him/her about it. Perhaps he could give you tips about how to fight ... Read more.
I can understand that you feel confused about your sexuality. You are worried about your thoughts and fantasies. You also wrote you watch pornography at least 4 times a week and you masturbate yourself each time you watch porn. Firstly, I dont think there is a problem about watching ... Read more.
Thanks for writing to Alterheros. It sounds like you are in the process of coming to some understanding as to what sexual orientation fits for you. A short answer to your question 'Am I bisexual?' is that only you can know the answer to that. It ... Read more.
Having feeling for people of both sexes can bring confusion and can become overwhelming. If you have an attraction to girls and wish to pursue those feeling you have for girls, there is no reason why you cant do so. It isn't a “once you cross over you can't ... Read more.
You noticed you like boys and you are afraid your dad will find out you are attracted by boys. How will he know it? I understand that you dont want him to know it now and it is ok; you've just found you are attracted by boys. But if ... Read more.
Thank you for writing to us with your question. Fortunately for you, you live in Montreal where you have many ways at your disposition to meet other bisexual guys. You have access to some resources like Projet 10. They have bilingual group discussions every Wednesday night from 7 to ... Read more.
All my life I’ve been told that being gay is wrong. Sometimes I even tell myselfthat it’s wrong… My parents think it’s absolutely disgusting to even think of a person who is gay. I obviously have yet to tell them what I am and I probably never will.
Parles-en aux experts is a project of the nonprofit organization AlterHeros, which aims the heathly development of all individuals regarding with their sexual orientation, gender identity and sexuality. We are based in Montreal, Canada.