Bisexuality
How do I juggle my feelings for my boyfriend and my best friend?
Hi Sammy, thank you for your question.
It is difficult to experience attraction to two people, particularly when they are two people whom you love and you don't want to hurt. Being that one of them is your boyfriend and the other is your best friend, it is very important that ... Read more.
How do I get gaydar?
Hi John,
Thanks so much for writing in to us at AlterHéros. It sounds like you're trying to find out whether or not your friend is bisexual or gay and if there is a way to figure it out by using gaydar. Firstly, you should know that gaydar does ... Read more.
My friend touches and kisses me, is he joking around with me or is he straight?
Hi Charlie thank you for your question.
I would start by telling your friend your orientation. Is he aware that you are bisexual and, if yes, can you tell him that you like him as more than just friends? The way that he is acting certainly makes it sound as ... Read more.
My friends say I’m not really bisexual!
Dear Sarah,
There are certainly a lot of people who want to tell bisexuals that
they are "just confused," and that they will eventually make up their
minds as to which gender they actually prefer. I think that the people
who tell you this are just scared of the possibility that they,
themselves, may not ... Read more.
Do my dreams mean I am bi?
Hi Briana,
First off, Please allow me to apologize for the lateness in getting back to you. Such long delays are very uncommon. So, if I'm understanding correctly, it seems that your are somewhat disturbed by some dreams you are having about homosexual encounters you are having with real life acquaintances. ... Read more.
Making out with my lesbian friend who has a girlfriend
John,
At any age men and women ask themselves questions about sexuality and why things happen. It gets complicated especially when hormones are involved! Answers usually are all we ever ask for in life but when it comes to sex and sexuality there is a whole gambit of varieties of who's ... Read more.
Does the way I masturbate make me bi?
Hi Wayne, Thanks for your question. I'll try to help as best I can.
You're curious as to whether or not masturbating while wearing women's lingerie and sucking on a dildo makes you bisexual. The short answer to your question is no, simply masturbating while fantasizing about men or simulating gay ... Read more.
Is it o.k. to like having sex with girls more than with boys?
Hi Nisha, Thanks for coming to us with your question. I'll try to help with your situation as best I can.
You say you're curious as to whether or not it's right for you to enjoy having sex with women more than men. Your concerns are based on your parents' feelings ... Read more.
Age gap and bisexuality
Hi Veronica,
I don't think labels are necessarily helpful, since people often judge others with the help of labels, but since you are confused, I will offer my advice. It's hard to say, at this point, whether you are bisexual, bi-curious, lesbian or straight. If you have never had any physical ... Read more.
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