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You explain that you recently had an experience with a girl while still in a relationship with your boyfriend. After disclosing this to your boyfriend, he is willing to put this aside and to continue the relationship, but you ... Read more.
Hey there Alex,
I hope I can help with your question. I know it's not the easiest thing to talk about considering you and your friend don't even speak about it.
To my understanding there's two separate parts to this situation. I understand that your currently questioning your own sexuality, which ... Read more.
I am so glad that you chose to come to Alterheros to share your feelings about this situation with your classmate. Our intimate desires can be confusing and complex; they can also be frightening when these desires seem to go against what larger society deems as normal'.
In ... Read more.
Your message shows that you are caught in great dichotomies: female versus male, emotional/romantic attachment versus sexual attraction, and assertion and confusion. It also indicates that you pay attention to various components of a relationship, and that you care deeply for the boy you are with.
This by no ... Read more.
Thank you for coming to Alterheros with your question.
In your question, you explain that you are happily in a relationship with your boyfriend and are thinking about engagement and marriage. You also bring up that you sometimes fantasize about other women during foreplay but not during sex* with ... Read more.
Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. I hear you say that you have feelings for a girl that has gestured many body language cues that could indicate romantic feelings - however you are unsure whether to share with her how you feel. There are several aspects to ... Read more.
Thanks for writing to AlterHeros. You write that you are attracted to men in jeans, but not naked men, and you want to know if you are gay.
Only you knows your own sexual orientation. By "gay" most of the people mean an attraction to the same sex. ... Read more.
Thanks for writing into Alterheros! You seem to be having some confusing feelings about whether or not you are transgendered. You mention that you have always aroused yourself by fantasizing about being a woman in a sexual encounter with a man. Even though you are attracted to women, ... Read more.
Thanks for sending in your question Andrew,
At 15, you are in a period of adolescence (a period of important body changes, including sexual maturation) see the beginning of this answer http://www.alterheros.com/english/ask_experts/ask.cfm?QID=1870
It is perfectly ok to be attracted to women and men, attraction is a complicated process, our brain and our ... Read more.
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