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I cheated with a girl. He took me back but am I bi? Lesbian?

I cheated with a girl. He took me back but am I bi? Lesbian?

Question asked by Laura (21 years old questioning woman from Peru, Peru)

Question answered on August 4, 2010 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, En questionnement, Questions

Hi Laura, Thank you for writing into Alterheros with your question. You explain that you recently had an experience with a girl while still in a relationship with your boyfriend. After disclosing this to your boyfriend, he is willing to put this aside and to continue the relationship, but you ... Read more.
I want a straight life but enjoy gay porn

I want a straight life but enjoy gay porn

Question asked by alex (21 years old heterosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on August 4, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Hey there Alex, I hope I can help with your question. I know it's not the easiest thing to talk about considering you and your friend don't even speak about it. To my understanding there's two separate parts to this situation. I understand that your currently questioning your own sexuality, which ... Read more.
Is she just being nice to me? I’m sure she’s straight but she’s driving me crazy!

Is she just being nice to me? I’m sure she’s straight but she’s driving me crazy!

Question asked by Chloe (15 years old homosexual woman from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on July 24, 2010 by

Sorted in High-school, En questionnement, Questions

Hi Chloe, I am so glad that you chose to come to Alterheros to share your feelings about this situation with your classmate. Our intimate desires can be confusing and complex; they can also be frightening when these desires seem to go against what larger society deems as ‘normal'. In ... Read more.
How can I be in a relationship with a man if I don’t find him sexually attractive?

How can I be in a relationship with a man if I don’t find him sexually attractive?

Question asked by Emily (16 years old questioning woman from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on July 7, 2010 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, En questionnement, Questions

Hi Emily, Your message shows that you are caught in great dichotomies: female versus male, emotional/romantic attachment versus sexual attraction, and assertion and confusion. It also indicates that you pay attention to various components of a relationship, and that you care deeply for the boy you are with. This by no ... Read more.
I fantasize about women during foreplay with my boyfriend

I fantasize about women during foreplay with my boyfriend

Question asked by lauren brown (25 years old questioning woman from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on June 14, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Misconceptions & Clichés, Questions

Hi Lauren, Thank you for coming to Alterheros with your question. In your question, you explain that you are happily in a relationship with your boyfriend and are thinking about engagement and marriage. You also bring up that you sometimes fantasize about other women during foreplay but not during sex* with ... Read more.
Is she unconsciously sending me a sign with her body language?

Is she unconsciously sending me a sign with her body language?

Question asked by Skye Jones (17 years old questioning woman from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on May 12, 2010 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, En questionnement, Questions

Hi Skye, Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. I hear you say that you have feelings for a girl that has gestured many body language cues that could indicate romantic feelings - however you are unsure whether to share with her how you feel. There are several aspects to ... Read more.
I am attracted to men, but not penises, am I gay ?

I am attracted to men, but not penises, am I gay ?

Question asked by Aaron (30 years old questioning man from Australia, Australia)

Question answered on May 10, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Questions

Hi Aaron, Thanks for writing to AlterHeros. You write that you are attracted to men in jeans, but not naked men, and you want to know if you are gay. Only you knows your own sexual orientation. By "gay" most of the people mean an attraction to the same sex. ... Read more.
I’m jealous of

I’m jealous of

Question asked by Jason Morris (21 years old questioning man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on March 16, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Questions, Transsexuality

Hi Jason, Thanks for writing into Alterheros! You seem to be having some confusing feelings about whether or not you are transgendered. You mention that you have always aroused yourself by fantasizing about being a woman in a sexual encounter with a man. Even though you are attracted to women, ... Read more.
(Français) Suis-je gai ?

(Français) Suis-je gai ?

Question asked by francis (Homme de 19 ans, Canada, Canada)

Question answered on March 6, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Questions

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Men: I’m attracted to everything above the waist only

Men: I’m attracted to everything above the waist only

Question asked by Andrew (15 years old heterosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on February 25, 2010 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, En questionnement, Questions

Thanks for sending in your question Andrew, At 15, you are in a period of adolescence (a period of important body changes, including sexual maturation) see the beginning of this answer http://www.alterheros.com/english/ask_experts/ask.cfm?QID=1870 It is perfectly ok to be attracted to women and men, attraction is a complicated process, our brain and our ... Read more.
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