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She has feelings for me, and I don’t know what to do…

She has feelings for me, and I don’t know what to do…

Question asked by Stella (36 years old heterosexual woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on February 6, 2010 by

Sorted in Friendship, En questionnement, Questions

Hi Stella, thanks for coming to us with your question. I understand that you are feeling lost and stressed about the prospect of starting a romantic relationship with someone who is not only a friend, but also a woman. This combined with the fact that you are going through a tough ... Read more.
I watch transsexual porn but prefer women when I’m not masturbating

I watch transsexual porn but prefer women when I’m not masturbating

Question asked by Jeremy (21 years old questioning man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on January 10, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Questions, Transsexuality

Hello Jeremy, Thank you for coming to AlterHeros with your question. From your question, I can gather the following: you feel that you are more attracted to transsexuals than women. Secondly, when watching transsexual porn, you feel a sense of excitement and arousal, but after ejaculation your interest returns to ... Read more.
I hate that I am attracted to men…

I hate that I am attracted to men…

Question asked by Peter (21 years old questioning man from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on January 7, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Questions

Hi Peter, Thank you for sharing your question with Alterhéros. You explain that early into puberty, your fascination with women changed to one for men. You dislike this part of you, but know you cannot change it. However, you are emotionally more attracted to the opposite sex and would like to ... Read more.
(Français) Pourquoi n’ai-je pas pu choisir mon orientation sexuelle ?

(Français) Pourquoi n’ai-je pas pu choisir mon orientation sexuelle ?

Question asked by Luc (Homme de 18 ans, France, France)

Question answered on December 15, 2009 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Questions

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My preferences and desires are confusing me at age 13.

My preferences and desires are confusing me at age 13.

Question asked by Paul (13 years old man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on November 25, 2009 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, En questionnement, Questions

Hi Paul thanks for your question At 13 you're at the beginning of the sexual maturation process of when your body goes through major transformation of childhood to adulthood. You can read more about sexual maturation here http://www.alterheros.com/english/ask_experts/ask.cfm?QID=1870 This period of time lasts only a few years but brings huge transformation, ... Read more.
I’m female but have gender identity confusion

I’m female but have gender identity confusion

Question asked by Sarah (24 years old questioning woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on November 21, 2009 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions

Hi Sarah! The first thing for you to understand is that what label you give yourself doesn't matter. You can be bi, you can be a lesbian, you can be both, or you can just be queer-along with a myriad of other options. It doesn't have to be the defining ... Read more.
I’m a straight female but would rather be a gay male

I’m a straight female but would rather be a gay male

Question asked by Rachael (21 years old from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on October 21, 2009 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions

Hi Rachael, thanks for coming to Alterheros. Your question is a complex one so I want to look at it in a few different ways. From what I understand, you identify as a straight female who is and always has only been turned on by and attracted to gay male sexual ... Read more.
I’m a very confused boi – is it wrong to want to be both genders?

I’m a very confused boi – is it wrong to want to be both genders?

Question asked by Jen (15 years old homosexual woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on August 31, 2009 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions

Hi Shadow, Thank you for writing to AlterHeros. As I hope you know, you are among many other teenagers who are questioning and exploring their sexuality; and sharing your concerns will help others. If I understand well, I think we could divide your concerns into two aspects 1) your sexual identity and ... Read more.
I am having feelings towards other men, I know my wife would not accept this.

I am having feelings towards other men, I know my wife would not accept this.

Question asked by (26 years old questioning man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on August 19, 2009 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Gay Marriage, Questions

Diverse sexual feeling can come up at any point in life, most teens as they grow into adults discover and confirm a sexual identity/orientation for themselves. Unlike traditional society models may have you believe orientation is not something that is fixed, it is something that can change over the course ... Read more.
I was a tomboy. I admire girls. Am I straight or not?

I was a tomboy. I admire girls. Am I straight or not?

Question asked by Sandra Olson (18 years old questioning woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on August 10, 2009 by

Sorted in Discovery, En questionnement, Questions

Hi Sandra, thanks for coming to us with your question. It seems like you are questioning yourself a lot right now, which can be a pretty intense process. First of all, I'd like to say that I don't think being tomboy when you were younger, wearing your hair a certain ... Read more.
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