Hi Stella, thanks for coming to us with your question.
I understand that you are feeling lost and stressed about the prospect of starting a romantic relationship with someone who is not only a friend, but also a woman. This combined with the fact that you are going through a tough ... Read more.
Thank you for coming to AlterHeros with your question.
From your question, I can gather the following: you feel that you are more attracted to transsexuals than women. Secondly, when watching transsexual porn, you feel a sense of excitement and arousal, but after ejaculation your interest returns to ... Read more.
Thank you for sharing your question with Alterhéros.
You explain that early into puberty, your fascination with women changed to one for men. You dislike this part of you, but know you cannot change it. However, you are emotionally more attracted to the opposite sex and would like to ... Read more.
Hi Paul thanks for your question
At 13 you're at the beginning of the sexual maturation process of when your body goes through major transformation of childhood to adulthood. You can read more about sexual maturation here http://www.alterheros.com/english/ask_experts/ask.cfm?QID=1870
This period of time lasts only a few years but brings huge transformation, ... Read more.
The first thing for you to understand is that what label you give yourself doesn't matter. You can be bi, you can be a lesbian, you can be both, or you can just be queer-along with a myriad of other options. It doesn't have to be the defining ... Read more.
Hi Rachael, thanks for coming to Alterheros. Your question is a complex one so I want to look at it in a few different ways.
From what I understand, you identify as a straight female who is and always has only been turned on by and attracted to gay male sexual ... Read more.
Thank you for writing to AlterHeros. As I hope you know, you are among many other teenagers who are questioning and exploring their sexuality; and sharing your concerns will help others.
If I understand well, I think we could divide your concerns into two aspects 1) your sexual identity and ... Read more.
Diverse sexual feeling can come up at any point in life, most teens as they grow into adults discover and confirm a sexual identity/orientation for themselves. Unlike traditional society models may have you believe orientation is not something that is fixed, it is something that can change over the course ... Read more.
Hi Sandra, thanks for coming to us with your question.
It seems like you are questioning yourself a lot right now, which can be a pretty intense process. First of all, I'd like to say that I don't think being tomboy when you were younger, wearing your hair a certain ... Read more.
Parles-en aux experts is a project of the nonprofit organization AlterHeros, which aims the heathly development of all individuals regarding with their sexual orientation, gender identity and sexuality. We are based in Montreal, Canada.