Gay & Lesbian

I feel more comfortable around women than men. Am I a lesbian?

I feel more comfortable around women than men. Am I a lesbian?

Question asked by Sandy (25 questioning, Canada)

Question answered on July 23, 2011 by

Sorted in Definitions, En questionnement, Gay & Lesbian, Questions, Am I gay, lesbian, bi or trans?

Hi Sandy, Thank you for writing to Alterheros with your questions. You bring up a few different ideas and concerns about your sexuality and whether or not it has been influenced by witnessing other people’s abusive relationships. You say that you feel threatened by men and in turn, prefer to be around ... Read more.
I want a straight life but enjoy gay porn

I want a straight life but enjoy gay porn

Question asked by alex (21 years old heterosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on August 4, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Hey there Alex, I hope I can help with your question. I know it's not the easiest thing to talk about considering you and your friend don't even speak about it. To my understanding there's two separate parts to this situation. I understand that your currently questioning your own sexuality, which ... Read more.
Telling my friend I like her changed our relationship, but I still have feelings for her

Telling my friend I like her changed our relationship, but I still have feelings for her

Question asked by Letitia (14 years old woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on May 12, 2010 by

Sorted in Friendship, Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Letitia, It's difficult to be in a situation where you have strong feelings for a friend who doesn't return them. Your friendship with this girl has already suffered and continues to be different since you revealed your feelings. Right now, you aren't satisfied with the situation and are afraid of losing ... Read more.
Repulsed by men since I was raped, I don’t know if I’m a lesbian

Repulsed by men since I was raped, I don’t know if I’m a lesbian

Question asked by Linzi (31 years old woman from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on March 16, 2010 by

Sorted in Causes of homosexuality / sexual orientation, Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Hi Linzi, I think what's especially important when someone does something bad to us is not to generalize. Each person is unique in his or her own way and this is why stereotyping should be avoided. I'm not trying to take away from the gravity of the incident that occurred, because ... Read more.
Gay, lesbian, bisexual teens at higher pregnancy risk than straight peers

Gay, lesbian, bisexual teens at higher pregnancy risk than straight peers

TORONTO — Lesbian, gay and bisexual teens in British Columbia are at a higher risk of becoming pregnant or causing a pregnancy than their heterosexual peers, says a study released Tuesday. The authors suggest the discrimination, sexual abuse and harassment that gay, lesbian and bisexual teens face may prompt them to indulge in more sexually [...]

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I want to be a lesbian, but I am unsure of my real sexual orientatio

I want to be a lesbian, but I am unsure of my real sexual orientatio

Question asked by Em (18 years old questioning woman from Australia, Australia)

Question answered on January 21, 2009 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Hello, and thanks for your question! Sometimes sexual attraction can be secondary to emotional attraction. If you feel good around this guy and he makes you smile, you don't necessarily have to be physically attracted to him in order to give it a go. Some couples find the 'attraction' only after they've ... Read more.
What is happening to me ? I love my boyfriend, but I have thoughts that I might be attracted by females

What is happening to me ? I love my boyfriend, but I have thoughts that I might be attracted by females

Question asked by laura (19 years old questioning woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on January 20, 2009 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Hi Laura, thank you for your question. If I can reassure you from the start, I think that the questionning you are going through right now is normal. Sexuality, and sexual orientation in particular, are not always simple issues and often bring about many questions that aren't easy to deal with. What I ... Read more.
Bill to protect gays, lesbians

Bill to protect gays, lesbians

A bill that would prevent discrimination of gays and lesbians under North Dakota human rights and fair housing law is expected to be introduced on Monday, Sen. Tom Fiebiger, D-Fargo, said Thursday. If passed, the bill would add sexual orientation among the protected classes under the North Dakota Human Rights Act, which bans discrimination for [...]

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I hate how religions portray homosexuality

I hate how religions portray homosexuality

Question asked by mickey (17 years old from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on November 11, 2008 by

Sorted in Gay & Lesbian, Questions, Religions

Hi Mickey, Thank you for your question. First I'd like to tell you that you're not alone. People who do not identify themselves as heterosexual have been struggling with legal, moral and societal issues ever since the beginning of modern society. Back in the Middle Ages, they use to call the people ... Read more.
I came out to friends and now some are casting me out

I came out to friends and now some are casting me out

Question asked by Tony (14 years old homosexual man)

Question answered on October 16, 2008 by

Sorted in Gay & Lesbian, Coming out, Questions

Hi Tony! Thank you for your question. As you must know, coming out is not an easy thing do to, and so I think it's great that you found strength in yourself to speak openly to some of your friends about your homosexuality. From what I understand, you are going through a tough ... Read more.
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