Gay & Lesbian
I am really attracted to a guy friend, but I am not sure if I am gay or bisexual
Hi JP,
Thank you for your question.
It sounds like you are worried about your sexual orientation based on feelings you have for another man. You are also wondering whether you should tell him, and how he might react.
I think the first thing you have to realize is that "gay" and "bisexual" ... Read more.
I don’t know if I am gay
Hi Maverick,
Thanks for your question. Many men are scared about seeming, being, acting or being perceived as homosexual... or having fantasies about non-traditional sexual practices as you have mentioned in your question.
What's important to remember is that sex and sexuality is an adventure not to be scared of. Fantasies, desires, ... Read more.
If I masturbate while thinking about men, does this mean I’m gay?
Hi Adam,
Thank you for your question. I believe you are asking about sexual orientation and how to tell whether you are homosexual, heterosexual or bisexual. I do want to state first that around the ages of 12-18 yo –the age of puberty-, many people start to wonder about their sexuality ... Read more.
I am worried I might be a lesbian
Hi Loren - thank you for your question. Most people of your age start to wonder about their sexuality and a lot of people question what their sexual orientation is. Sexual orientation is defined as the romantic, affectional, or erotic attraction that an individual feels. There are several sexual orientations ... Read more.
What does those attractions means ?
Hi Rhonda,
Thanks for writting to AlterHeroes.
I understand that you have become friends with a woman who you respect, trust and share a lot in common with. From your description, I gather that the ease of your relationship with this woman is very comforting and something that even those close ... Read more.
Is there a cure for being gay ?
Hi Mori,
I know that it's not what your hope to read but there is no cure for homosexuality. Homosexuality is not a behavior; it's a preference. And no, I don't know anybody who has been cured and back straight. I'm sorry, I know you can be scared, confused and maybe ... Read more.
My best friend is gay, but always want to touch me… i don’t know what to do
Hi Katherine,
Sexual tension can be hard for a relationship and people who live it. If you don't want it, you probably need to talk about it to keep things clear. However, you two have to be completely honest with each other about your thoughts and feeling concerning this situation. How ... Read more.
Is my coach lesbian ?
Hi Lesley,
There is no "signs" to tell if someone if homosexual, bisexual or heterosexual. You only can know it when the person tells you. Wearing short hair, dressing like a men and work as a coach don't mean something; it is a stereotype. Real lesbians are like you, your ... Read more.
I am a lesbian and I live in a very religious area, what should I do ?
Hi Kelsey,
Its not always easy to live with homosexuality and religion at the same time. Particularly when the family and the area is very religious. But about the depression, you maybe should see a doctor and tell him/her about it. Perhaps he could give you tips about how to fight ... Read more.
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