Gay & Lesbian

I am really attracted to a guy friend, but I am not sure if I am gay or bisexual

I am really attracted to a guy friend, but I am not sure if I am gay or bisexual

Question asked by jp (23 years old questioning man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on March 13, 2008 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Hi JP, Thank you for your question. It sounds like you are worried about your sexual orientation based on feelings you have for another man. You are also wondering whether you should tell him, and how he might react. I think the first thing you have to realize is that "gay" and "bisexual" ... Read more.
I don’t know if I am gay

I don’t know if I am gay

Question asked by Maverick (21 years old heterosexual man)

Question answered on February 21, 2008 by

Sorted in Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Hi Maverick, Thanks for your question. Many men are scared about seeming, being, acting or being perceived as homosexual... or having fantasies about non-traditional sexual practices as you have mentioned in your question. What's important to remember is that sex and sexuality is an adventure not to be scared of. Fantasies, desires, ... Read more.
If I masturbate while thinking about men, does this mean I’m gay?

If I masturbate while thinking about men, does this mean I’m gay?

Question asked by Adam (13 years old heterosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on February 3, 2008 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Hi Adam, Thank you for your question. I believe you are asking about sexual orientation and how to tell whether you are homosexual, heterosexual or bisexual. I do want to state first that around the ages of 12-18 yo –the age of puberty-, many people start to wonder about their sexuality ... Read more.
I am worried I might be a lesbian

I am worried I might be a lesbian

Question asked by Loren (13 years old questioning woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on January 21, 2008 by

Sorted in Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Hi Loren - thank you for your question. Most people of your age start to wonder about their sexuality and a lot of people question what their sexual orientation is. Sexual orientation is defined as the romantic, affectional, or erotic attraction that an individual feels. There are several sexual orientations ... Read more.
What does those attractions means ?

What does those attractions means ?

Question asked by rhonda (36 years old questioning woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on September 10, 2006 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Hi Rhonda, Thanks for writting to AlterHeroes. I understand that you have become friends with a woman who you respect, trust and share a lot in common with. From your description, I gather that the ease of your relationship with this woman is very comforting and something that even those close ... Read more.
Is there a cure for being gay ?

Is there a cure for being gay ?

Question asked by mori (21 years old homosexual man from Iran (Islamic Republic of), Iran (Islamic Republic of))

Question answered on July 27, 2006 by

Sorted in Acceptance, Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Hi Mori, I know that it's not what your hope to read but there is no cure for homosexuality. Homosexuality is not a behavior; it's a preference. And no, I don't know anybody who has been cured and back straight. I'm sorry, I know you can be scared, confused and maybe ... Read more.
My best friend is gay, but always want to touch me… i don’t know what to do

My best friend is gay, but always want to touch me… i don’t know what to do

Question asked by katherine (20 years old heterosexual woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on July 11, 2006 by

Sorted in Friendship, Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Hi Katherine, Sexual tension can be hard for a relationship and people who live it. If you don't want it, you probably need to talk about it to keep things clear. However, you two have to be completely honest with each other about your thoughts and feeling concerning this situation. How ... Read more.
Is my coach lesbian ?

Is my coach lesbian ?

Question asked by Lesley (17 years old heterosexual woman from Bahamas, Bahamas)

Question answered on June 8, 2006 by

Sorted in Gay & Lesbian, Questions, Outing

Hi Lesley, There is no "signs" to tell if someone if homosexual, bisexual or heterosexual. You only can know it when the person tells you. Wearing short hair, dressing like a men and work as a coach don't mean something; it is a stereotype. Real lesbians are like you, your ... Read more.
I am a lesbian and I live in a very religious area, what should I do ?

I am a lesbian and I live in a very religious area, what should I do ?

Question asked by Kelsey (16 years old homosexual woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on May 31, 2006 by

Sorted in Acceptance, Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Hi Kelsey, Its not always easy to live with homosexuality and religion at the same time. Particularly when the family and the area is very religious. But about the depression, you maybe should see a doctor and tell him/her about it. Perhaps he could give you tips about how to fight ... Read more.
Is it a possibility its just in my head ?

Is it a possibility its just in my head ?

Question asked by Dylan (13 years old questioning man from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on May 8, 2006 by

Sorted in Acceptance, Gay & Lesbian, Questions

Hi Dylan, You noticed you like boys and you are afraid your dad will find out you are attracted by boys. How will he know it? I understand that you dont want him to know it now and it is ok; you've just found you are attracted by boys. But if ... Read more.
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