Am I gay, lesbian, bi or trans?

If I could pass, would my family support me if I decided I was transgender?

If I could pass, would my family support me if I decided I was transgender?

Question asked by clay (21 years old questioning man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on November 18, 2010 by

Sorted in Acceptance, Questions, Travestites

Hello Clay, Thanks for writing in to us at AlterHéros. From the sounds of your post, it seems that you have become increasingly depressed over the years regarding your strong feelings towards potentially being a woman inside. You also mention that if you were able to pass as one, you would ... Read more.
Am I bi? I like a girl on Facebook who dresses like a guy!

Am I bi? I like a girl on Facebook who dresses like a guy!

Question asked by Calioppe (16 years old questioning woman from Indonesia, Indonesia)

Question answered on November 9, 2010 by

Sorted in Acceptance, Bisexuality, Questions

Hi Calioppe, From your letter, it sounds like you may be bi, but that isn't something you should be worried about. Many people are bisexual and feel attracted to or are drawn to members of both sexes. Also, your feelings towards both guys and girls are likely not something ... Read more.
How come I get aroused by shirtless men? I’m sure I like women.

How come I get aroused by shirtless men? I’m sure I like women.

Question asked by Alex (15 years old man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on November 1, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions

Hey Alex thanks for your question, First off you are 15, it is perfectly normal at your age to be confused, you are basically right in the middle of adolescence. Most boys start feeling attraction to the opposite sex, attraction to the same sex, attraction to both sexes and/or sometimes ... Read more.
Am I gay if I get an erection while watching gay porn?

Am I gay if I get an erection while watching gay porn?

Question asked by Filipe (10 years old questioning man from Portugal, Portugal)

Question answered on October 27, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Questions

Hi Filipe! Thank you very much for writing in to us at Alterheros. You write that becoming aroused after mistakenly seeing gay porn has caused you to question your sexuality, despite the fact that you are attracted to and have been in love with girls. Your question is not uncommon among ... Read more.
Can I be labeled a girl or a boy or something in between?

Can I be labeled a girl or a boy or something in between?

Question asked by Elisa (16 years old heterosexual woman from Uruguay, Uruguay)

Question answered on October 26, 2010 by

Sorted in Alienation, En questionnement, Questions

Hi Elisa, In your question you express the idea that you may be happier as a boy and wonder what you could identify as. My short answer would be: you can identify yourself however you wish to. Labels are usually a quick and easy way to put oneself into a category. Whether it ... Read more.
Is it worth opening up to him? I might lose his friendship.

Is it worth opening up to him? I might lose his friendship.

Question asked by Rodrigo (17 years old questioning man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on October 2, 2010 by

Sorted in Acceptance, Questions, Coming out

Hi Rodrigo, Coming out can be very intimidating. Although it may seem overwhelming - try to think of it not so much as you coming out of some sort of hiding, but rather coming into your own. You have obviously been thinking about this for a while, and you're ready ... Read more.
My strong feelings continue – should I tell her so?

My strong feelings continue – should I tell her so?

Question asked by christy (16 years old woman from Peru, Peru)

Question answered on October 2, 2010 by

Sorted in Love, Bisexuality, Questions

Hi Christy! My name is Tilly and first of all I want to say I'm so glad that you've reached out to us at Alterheros! I'd be more than happy to try to help you in any way I can. It sounds like you're in a pretty difficult situation right now. I ... Read more.
I dont’ know how to get a girlfriend

I dont’ know how to get a girlfriend

Question asked by Serena

Question answered on September 26, 2010 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, Dating, Questions

Hi Serena, Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. It sounds like your going through a tough situation. A few things to consider before you lose all hope = ) (because you will be able to find a girlfriend, its just a matter of time). First off, you say you ... Read more.
I’m sure I’m attracted to men, but i’m repulsed by the sight of a penis!

I’m sure I’m attracted to men, but i’m repulsed by the sight of a penis!

Question asked by Sean (19 years old questioning man from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on September 15, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Questions, Sex

Hi Sean, Seems like you have a lot going on. You say that you have always been attracted to men, but the sight of a penis repulses you. What is it about men that you are attracted to? Are you attracted to men in a sexual way? Being repulsed by ... Read more.
I don’t want to waste my teen years on the ‘wrong’ sex.

I don’t want to waste my teen years on the ‘wrong’ sex.

Question asked by Isaiah (15 years old questioning man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on August 30, 2010 by

Sorted in Acceptance, En questionnement, Questions

Hi Isaiah, Thank you for writing to Alterheros. I am glad that you are aware of the fact that you are young and thus have plenty of time to decide. First of all, give yourself a pat on the back for that because many people your age are not aware of ... Read more.
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