Thank you for writing to Alterheros. I understand that you are confused and that you are getting mixed messages from your husband and your friends.
If you allow me, I would like to suggest that you ask yourself if it is really necessary to categorize your husband's sexual orientation as ... Read more.
Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros! There could be a lot of different reasons as to why you are fantasizing about other women while with your male partner. I think its important to realize first off, that your sexual orientation does not necessarily come with a ... Read more.
Thanks for your question and please forgive the long wait for this answer. You're curious as to whether it's possible for sexual abuse to make someone gay. The short answer to this question is no. There is never a single root cause to someone being gay.
There are ... Read more.
Hi Charlie thank you for your question.
I would start by telling your friend your orientation. Is he aware that you are bisexual and, if yes, can you tell him that you like him as more than just friends? The way that he is acting certainly makes it sound as ... Read more.
I am sorry you were repeatedly molested during your childhood. People who have been molested are not more prone to change their sexuality than any other people. Many people know they are gay before they even have any kind of sexual contact.
I must say, to find out who you are, ... Read more.
At any age men and women ask themselves questions about sexuality and why things happen. It gets complicated especially when hormones are involved! Answers usually are all we ever ask for in life but when it comes to sex and sexuality there is a whole gambit of varieties of who's ... Read more.
Thank you for your question.
I was not able to find specific data that showed that the prevalence of a gay and/or bisexual sexual orientation has increased among men with physical disabilities.
However, my sense is that a person with a physical disability may, in many cases, be discriminated against, either ... Read more.
It definitely is not necessary to have a boyfriend, now or later. Firstly, love will happen whether you plan it or not. Careers, you have to work hard at. So you go girl! Get your education-career and with it will come a whole new life filled with people and ... Read more.
Thank you for your question. No, masturbating every day is not a problem unless it is embarrassing you or you are trying to get pregnant with someone. If you and a partner are trying to get pregnant, then masturbating every day would decrease the likelihood of you having healthy ... Read more.
Hi Kelsey, thanks for sending your question to Alterheros!
From what I understand, you are trying to find the right label for your sexual orientation, and also trying to decide if you are finding yourself more attracted to women because that is what's natural for you, or because you've had a ... Read more.
Parles-en aux experts is a project of the nonprofit organization AlterHeros, which aims the heathly development of all individuals regarding with their sexual orientation, gender identity and sexuality. We are based in Montreal, Canada.