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Je me sens femme depuis 16 ans. Que faire?

Je me sens femme depuis 16 ans. Que faire?

Question asked by julie59 (Homme de 47 ans, France)

Question answered on 28 March 2017 by

Sorted in Being transsexual and homosexual, Uncomfortable in my skin, Questions, Trans healthcare, Coming out, Coming out, Am I trans?, Transition, Transsexuality

Bonjour Julie59, Avant de répondre à votre question, je tiens à vous remercier d’avoir écrit à AlterHéros. Votre question est très importante pour nous et je tenterai d’y répondre au meilleur de mes connaissances. Si je comprends bien ce que vous dites, vous vous sentez femme depuis l’âge de 16 ... Read more.
Pornography addiction, masturbation and sexual orientation: what’s going on with me?

Pornography addiction, masturbation and sexual orientation: what’s going on with me?

Question asked by alex (11 questioning man, Philippines)

Question answered on 13 March 2017 by

Sorted in Questions, Am I trans?

Hi Alex, Thanks for getting in touch with us. You are wondering if you are gay and if you will ever go back to masturbating while watching and/or thinking about women and what you call "normal" pornography. Also, say you would like to stop masturbating while thinking about "muscular men". First, let's go ... Read more.
Muscular attraction

Muscular attraction

Question asked by John (10 questioning man, Philippines)

Question answered on 3 March 2017 by

Sorted in Discovery, Questioning, Questions, Am I gay, lesbian, bi or trans?

Hi John, Thank you for taking the time to write to AlterHeros. If I understand correctly, you are asking yourself how you can get rid of some of your thoughts towards your attraction towards muscles. To clarify a few things, I have a few questions for you. In your message, you mention ... Read more.
I’m starting to like men but I still like women, how can I be straight?

I’m starting to like men but I still like women, how can I be straight?

Question asked by John (47 questioning man, Philippines)

Question answered on 27 February 2017 by

Sorted in Discovery, Questioning, Questions, Am I gay, lesbian, bi or trans?

Hi John, Thank you for taking the time to write to AlterHéros. If I understand correctly, you are asking yourself a few questions regarding your sexual orientation and your attraction towards other people. The situation is confusing you and you would like to make sense of it all. To clarify a few ... Read more.
Late period

Late period

Question asked by IrishGeek94 (22 woman, United States of America)

Question answered on 4 February 2017 by

Sorted in Protect yourself, Questions, Safe-sex

Hi IrishGeek94, Thank you for taking the time to write to AlterHéros. If I understand correctly, you are asking yourself why your period is late. The situation is confusing you and you would like to make sense of everything. To clarify a few things, I have a few questions for you. In ... Read more.
Question from Yoshi

Question from Yoshi

Question asked by yoshi ( homosexual woman)

Question answered on 14 June 2016 by

Sorted in Love, Questions

Hi Yoshi, Thank you for taking the time to write to Alterheros. If I understand correctly, you are asking yourself if what you felt is normal. Your thoughts are confusing you and you would like to make sense of everything. To clarify a few things, I have a few questions for you. ... Read more.
My husband is obsessed with anal penetration and he wants to have a threesome with me and another man!

My husband is obsessed with anal penetration and he wants to have a threesome with me and another man!

Question asked by Love stands a chance (32 woman, United States of America)

Question answered on 14 March 2016 by

Sorted in Sexual fantasies, Questions, Couple relationships, Sex, Cross-dressing

Hello, Thank you for contacting AlterHéros! We apologize for the delay. You mention that your partner of 5 years has cross-dressing fetishes that you accept. One of the things he really enjoys is anal penetration, which you say has become an "obsession" of his. This past year has brought you some difficulty ... Read more.
I’m a guy and I’m in love with my lesbian best friend. Should we have sex together?

I’m a guy and I’m in love with my lesbian best friend. Should we have sex together?

Question asked by Joe (Homme de 20 ans)

Question answered on 28 July 2015 by

Sorted in Friendship, Love, Questions, Relationships, Sex, Sex & relationships

Hi Joe, thank you for contacting AlterHeros with your question. You've been in love with your best friend for three years now. You two have a great connection. She is attracted to women. You recently made out together and she also told you that she thought of having sex with you. ... Read more.
I’ve come out to two of my friends. It has been really hard for me and I don’t know what to do about everyone else…

I’ve come out to two of my friends. It has been really hard for me and I don’t know what to do about everyone else…

Question asked by

Question answered on 30 March 2015 by

Sorted in Friendship, Family, Questions, Coming out, Coming out

Hi Stressed, First of all, kudos to you on accepting yourself in your beautiful entirety, and coming out to your friends.  These are not easy things to do and you should be very proud of yourself! It is always a difficult situation to come out to less supportive family members.  Something to ... Read more.
(Français) Comment faire accepter à ma mère que je suis homosexuelle?

(Français) Comment faire accepter à ma mère que je suis homosexuelle?

Question asked by Lean Back (Femme de 16 ans, Canada)

Question answered on 16 March 2015 by

Sorted in Acceptance, Family, Gay & Lesbian, Questions, Coming out

Bonjour, Merci de nous écrire pour partager ce que tu vis. Suite à ton coming-out auprès de ta mère, celle-ci Tu te demande comment faire accepter ton homosexualité à ta mère. Il n'y a pas de méthode infallible pour ce genre de situation. Ceci étant dit, trois ingrédents sont essentiels à mon ... Read more.
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