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(Français) Je me suis masturbé en pensant à mon meilleur ami, que dois-je en penser?
Bonjour Ayoubi,
Merci beaucoup de nous écrire. Il y a plusieurs mois, vous vous êtes masturbé en pensant à votre meilleur ami. Vous n'avez pas eu d'érection, mais vous avez ressenti des sensations agréables. Normalement, ce ne sont pas les hommes qui vous excitent, physiquement et émotionnellement, mais les femmes. Depuis ... Read more.
(Français) Comment dire à mes proches que je veux être un homme?
Bonjour!
Merci énormément de la confiance que tu nous porte en nous envoyant cette lettre. Dans celle-ci, tu nous indique que non seulement tu aimes les hommes, mais que tu sens en être un aussi. Mais tu crains la réaction de tes proches, tu te demande quoi faire... Tout d'abord, tu ... Read more.
(Français) Mon enfant est-il homosexuel?
Bonjour Soizic!
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(Français) A partir de quel âge peut-on subir une mastectomie ?
Cher Matt,
La question que tu poses est très pertinente et je ne suis pas étonné que tu aies du mal à trouver une réponse définitive. Tout cela vient du cadre légal particulier dont jouissent les jeunes de 14-17 ans au Québec. Tu as droit de regard sur les ... Read more.
I am wondering if my teacher has a crush on me…
Hi Diane,
Thanks for writing to AlterHeros. You are wondering if your teacher might have a crush on you, because she is staring at you and telling you compliments. Schools are sometimes like little universes in themselves, and a lot of things can happen there - love, conflicts, friendships, etc. But ... Read more.
I am starting to have feelings for my lesbian friend…
Hi Will,
Thanks for writing to AlterHeros. If I understand your question correctly, you are developping feelings for one of your friends, who is a lesbian woman, and you are having negative feelings about the outcome of a disclosure. All of that is "giving you headaches", as you are saying. For ... Read more.
(Français) Comment savoir : Amitié ou amour ?
Bonjour Justine,
D'abord, je te remercie de la confiance que tu nous accordes.
Premièrement, tu dis entretenir une relation privilégiée avec une amie, qui serait peut-être pour vous deux, une relation plus sérieuse qu'une simple amitié.
D'un côté, je ne sais pas si cette fille est la première ou l'une des premières filles ... Read more.
I feel more comfortable around women than men. Am I a lesbian?
Hi Sandy,
Thank you for writing to Alterheros with your questions.
You bring up a few different ideas and concerns about your sexuality and whether or not it has been influenced by witnessing other people’s abusive relationships. You say that you feel threatened by men and in turn, prefer to be around ... Read more.
I don’t know what to do, I want to talk about my feelings for other girls…
Hi Emily,
Dealing with your sexual identity at such a young age can be difficult for you, your family and your friends. Family often think it can’t happen to them. Friends can be okay with it one day, then not on another.
You should be proud that you are ... Read more.
I am in love with a friend !
Hi Rod thanks for your question,
This is a very common issue, because usually sexual relationships develop because you like a person, in the case of friendship, especially deep friendship is also because you like the person and being with them a lot. There is a difference between ... Read more.
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