Questions & Answers

Browse our recent questions asked

How to make him discover that I am gay ?

How to make him discover that I am gay ?

Question asked by How to seal the deal! (17 homosexual man, Canada)

Question answered on March 19, 2011 by

Sorted in Questions, Relationships

Hi Cool Bean, Thanks for the question. It can be tricky meeting people when you first come out, but it's definitely not impossible.  There are no clear answers or ways to talk to someone, but there are some things you can keep in mind when talking with someone you're potentially interested ... Read more.
Is it unusual to start being attracted by same-sex in my mid-30s ?

Is it unusual to start being attracted by same-sex in my mid-30s ?

Question asked by Canadian Joe (35 bisexual man, Canada)

Question answered on March 19, 2011 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, Questions

Hi Joe, Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. I am happy for you that you are at the next step of your self-discovery.  You should not feel alone in your discovery, discovering and or re-discovering ones sexuality is a dynamic ongoing process. This is because a person's sexuality is fluid ... Read more.
I realized I feel like a man…

I realized I feel like a man…

Question asked by Raph (17)

Question answered on March 12, 2011 by

Sorted in Comfortable in your skin, Questions

Hi Raph, It takes a lot of strength and courage to share your feelings with your friends and parents. It's really great and impressive that you were brave enough to do this. It sounds like your friends are a great support to you! It is important to surround yourself with people ... Read more.
I am aroused by pictures of female genitals, is it normal ?

I am aroused by pictures of female genitals, is it normal ?

Question asked by maria, 23 year old female (23 questioning woman, Poland)

Question answered on February 27, 2011 by

Sorted in Questions, Am I gay, lesbian, bi or trans?

Hi Maria, From what I understand you are confused by the fact that you can be sexually aroused by both male and female bodies (this has been happening to varying degrees over your lifetime), but you do not want to have sex with women. Now you are wondering if this means ... Read more.
I’m afraid my boyfriend will act out his fantasies.

I’m afraid my boyfriend will act out his fantasies.

Question asked by Anne (27 years old woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on January 19, 2011 by

Sorted in Questions, Sex, Sex & relationships

Hi Anne, Thank you for coming to AlterHeros with your question. From your statement above, you explain that you have recently found out about your boyfriend's sexual fantasies and desires to watch transsexual (Male to Female) pornography. You are frightened that your boyfriend will act on his sexual fantasies. Additionally, you are questioning ... Read more.
Am I still a lesbian if I’m attracted to my transgender friend?

Am I still a lesbian if I’m attracted to my transgender friend?

Question asked by Sara (22 years old homosexual woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on January 16, 2011 by

Sorted in Friendship, Love, Discovery, Age difference, En questionnement, Questions, Relationships, Transsexuality, Lesbian living, Trans living

Hi Sara, You say you have been with the same girlfriend for a while now.  How long is that to you? Some people might think that 6 months is a long time, others might say 2 years. You want to know if you are still considered a lesbian if you ... Read more.
I want to go live in America…

I want to go live in America…

Question asked by andi (17 years old homosexual man from Albania, Albania)

Question answered on January 5, 2011 by

Sorted in Rights and justice, Immigration, Questions

Hi Andi, Thanks for writing in with your question - moving to the US can be tricky or complicated unless you have a reason to go.  Visas for living and working in the US can be hard to get, they are very specific and can ... Read more.
How do I approach my sister about liking her best friend’s sister?

How do I approach my sister about liking her best friend’s sister?

Question asked by jenna rienks (17 years old woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on December 21, 2010 by

Sorted in Family, Questions, Coming out

Hi Jenna, Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. It sounds like you're in a frustrating situation. Hopefully this can help you sort out what you want to do. I hear you say that you have a close relationship with your sister, but she doesn't know you are ... Read more.
I want to move to the US from Tunisia to be with my boyfriend – can I apply for a green card?

I want to move to the US from Tunisia to be with my boyfriend – can I apply for a green card?

Question asked by Media (23 years old homosexual man from Tunisia, Tunisia)

Question answered on December 21, 2010 by

Sorted in Immigration, Gay Marriage, Questions

Hello Media! Thank you so much for writing in to us at AlterHéros.  First of all, congratulations on getting your F1 student Visa; we're sure that was a task all on its own!  Now, in terms of answering your questions, the advice you will find here will remain general since we ... Read more.
I can’t stop making lesbian jokes to my friend who hurt me

I can’t stop making lesbian jokes to my friend who hurt me

Question asked by (21 years old heterosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on December 6, 2010 by

Sorted in Abuse, Alienation, Questions

Hi and thanks for coming to us with your question. I will do my best to assist you with your problem. So if I understand correctly, you have a female friend with whom you had some sexual chemistry, which eventually led to a sexual encounter between you. After this, however, she ... Read more.
Page 2 of 6912345...102030...Last »

Got a question?

If you have a question about sexual orientation, gender identity or sexuality, ask our team at Tell-the-experts. Our outreach team is composed of multidisciplinary professionals, such sexologists, psychologists, social workers, doctors, nurses and community workers.

Please choose between the two types of services that we offer: standard or express.

Standard service

  • Question addressed by a qualified professional
  • Delay of answer varies between 7 to 30 days
  • Possibility to be refered to previously asked questions
  • Free

Choose standard service

Express service

  • Personalised answer by a qualified professional
  • Delay of answer of 72 hours guaranteed
  • $30 CDN per question-answer
  • Accepted payments: Accepted payments: Paypal and credit cards

We are sorry but the Express service is currently offline.

Remove this ad

Become an ally or ambassador member

By financially supporting AlterHeros, Ally or Ambassador members do not see ads when they surf our website. That is our way to say thank-you for helping us!

Become a premium member