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Finding other gay guys without going on 18+ sites

Finding other gay guys without going on 18+ sites

Question asked by Travis (16 years old homosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on July 24, 2009 by

Sorted in Extracurricular activities, Dating, Questions

Hi Travis, Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. Meeting other people who share your interests and find places to make friends that you connect with and have fun takes some effort, and creativity! Sometimes it can be a bit of a lengthy process to find a good circle ... Read more.
My friends say I’m only in a phase when I tell them I’m bi!

My friends say I’m only in a phase when I tell them I’m bi!

Question asked by Sam (13 years old man from Australia, Australia)

Question answered on July 23, 2009 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, En questionnement, Questions

Dear Sam, I don't mean this to sound condescending, but... DUDE! You're only 13! Even 30 year-olds like me don't necessarily have it all figured out, and we've been through lots and lots of relationships. You haven't been through many at your age, so you DEFINITELY don't have to have all ... Read more.
I’m not sure if I’m bi anymore, and I wish I were more androgynous.

I’m not sure if I’m bi anymore, and I wish I were more androgynous.

Question asked by Adrienne (16 years old questioning woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on July 19, 2009 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, En questionnement, Questions

Hello Adrienne, Thanks for turning to Alterheros in what seems to be a confusing time for you. First I would like to address the fact that you are 16 years old. You are still in puberty. This means, whatever you like right now, has the potential to change over time as you ... Read more.
Am I gay? And how do I find the right man for me?

Am I gay? And how do I find the right man for me?

Question asked by Jimmy Eddy (16 years old questioning man from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on July 19, 2009 by

Sorted in Discovery, First experiences, Questions

Hello Jimmy, thanks for your question, we have received two questions from you as displayed above however in one question your age is 16 and in the other your 12. How I would answer the question differs a bit depending on your age. Sexual maturation happens in young teenage years 11 ... Read more.
I had a traumatic experience with a man. Now I am scared to be Muslim AND gay.

I had a traumatic experience with a man. Now I am scared to be Muslim AND gay.

Question asked by Mazin ( questioning man)

Question answered on July 13, 2009 by

Sorted in Harassment, Questions, Religions

Hi Mazin, Thank you for your well articulated question. It is clear that you have been through traumatic experiences. It seems also clear that you know yourself well and are able to be truthful with yourself and assert your identity and are trying, in an articulate and well thought-out way to ... Read more.
I want to meet other girls like me, but I’m not ready to be OUT since my siblings are homophobic.

I want to meet other girls like me, but I’m not ready to be OUT since my siblings are homophobic.

Question asked by ananomouse (13 years old woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on July 13, 2009 by

Sorted in Dating, Homophobia and transphobia, Questions

Hi ananomouse, I'm not sure which part of the States you are in, so it's hard to give you specific organizations to turn to in order to meet other bi or lesbian girls. Different states have different politics and tolerance for LGBT people. There is however, the Gay-Straight Alliance (http://www.gsanetwork.org), which might ... Read more.
Followup about the crush I have on my old teacher

Followup about the crush I have on my old teacher

Question asked by Prem (23 years old questioning man from India, India)

Question answered on July 13, 2009 by

Sorted in Alienation, Cultures, Questions

Hi Prem, thank you for writing in with some details. It does sound like you are in a lonely place right now. You feel that your best friend does not support you and you feel unable to come out to your family because you fear how the news will make them feel. ... Read more.
Culture shock: do I really have to come out AGAIN?

Culture shock: do I really have to come out AGAIN?

Question asked by Jennifer Everett (21 years old homosexual woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on July 13, 2009 by

Sorted in Alienation, Pride without borders, Questions

Hi Jennifer, thanks for sending us your question. I understand that leaving the reality and comfort of your home city behind and throwing yourself into another (completely opposite) world can sometimes shake everything up. What was once stable and secure and not even questioned in your own world, can suddenly become ... Read more.
I’ve fallen for my friend but I don’t know if she would date a girl -what should I do?

I’ve fallen for my friend but I don’t know if she would date a girl -what should I do?

Question asked by Sophie (14 years old woman from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on July 9, 2009 by

Sorted in Friendship, Bisexuality, Questions

Hi Sophie, Thanks for writing in to us at AlterHéros. Ahh… Being in love. It can be the wonderful and amazing feeling when you find that special somebody that feels the same way about you. It can also make you go crazy when you fall in love ... Read more.
I have a bi friend and I don’t want to lose her – how can I understand her situation better?

I have a bi friend and I don’t want to lose her – how can I understand her situation better?

Question asked by Alex (14 years old woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on July 6, 2009 by

Sorted in Friendship, Bisexuality, Questions

Hi Alex Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros - and thank you for reading our previous posts on similar questions! I'm sure it's given you some things to think about before asking your question. Its a tough situation when you are good friends with someone, and you suddenly discover you disagree ... Read more.
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