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I didn’t come out to my dad – now I keep thinking of him in a sexual way

I didn’t come out to my dad – now I keep thinking of him in a sexual way

Question asked by Polly (21 years old homosexual woman from Great Britain, Great Britain)

Question answered on September 26, 2010 by

Sorted in Family, Questions, Coming out

Hi Polly, It sounds like you are in a frustrating position and I can understand why you feel the way you do. I don't think you are mad at all. There are many possible explanations for what you are going through. Having a long term girlfriend that ... Read more.
I dont’ know how to get a girlfriend

I dont’ know how to get a girlfriend

Question asked by Serena

Question answered on September 26, 2010 by

Sorted in Bisexuality, Dating, Questions

Hi Serena, Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. It sounds like your going through a tough situation. A few things to consider before you lose all hope = ) (because you will be able to find a girlfriend, its just a matter of time). First off, you say you ... Read more.
I’m sure I’m attracted to men, but i’m repulsed by the sight of a penis!

I’m sure I’m attracted to men, but i’m repulsed by the sight of a penis!

Question asked by Sean (19 years old questioning man from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on September 15, 2010 by

Sorted in En questionnement, Questions, Sex

Hi Sean, Seems like you have a lot going on. You say that you have always been attracted to men, but the sight of a penis repulses you. What is it about men that you are attracted to? Are you attracted to men in a sexual way? Being repulsed by ... Read more.
Though we fight a lot and he seems to have a lover, I have feelings for him.

Though we fight a lot and he seems to have a lover, I have feelings for him.

Question asked by robert (31 years old homosexual man from South Africa, South Africa)

Question answered on September 15, 2010 by

Sorted in Love, Internet Worries, Questions

Robert, First of all, thank you very much for reaching out to Alterheros. It takes a lot of courage to ask for help, especially when it comes to dealing with this kind of personal and sensitive issue. I do understand that you have strong feelings for this person that you mentioned. ... Read more.
Not looking for a sex change, but want to be castrated

Not looking for a sex change, but want to be castrated

Question asked by andrew harrison (44 years old questioning from United Kingdom (Great Britain), United Kingdom (Great Britain))

Question answered on September 15, 2010 by

Sorted in Alienation, Prejudices, Questions

Hi Andrew, thank you for writing to us with your question. I can't tell through your question whether or not you consider yourself to be a transgendered person, or not. For the purposes of answering your question though, I will be assuming that you do consider yourself to be transgendered. Just ... Read more.
Guiding a gay youth while rejecting his sexual advances to both myself and my partner

Guiding a gay youth while rejecting his sexual advances to both myself and my partner

Question asked by Randy

Question answered on September 15, 2010 by

Sorted in Why act? Why talk about it?, Questions, Outing

Hi Randy, Guiding a “lost” or “new gay” teen is something that is neither simple, nor easy. At least when straight people like teachers, principals, councilors, a school nurse, peer support persons, give information and guide a young homosexual things are clearer for them, youth are then empowered then they ... Read more.
How do I reconcile my queer alliance while converting to Islam?

How do I reconcile my queer alliance while converting to Islam?

Question asked by Stephanie Roy (22 years old heterosexual woman from Canada, Canada)

Question answered on September 15, 2010 by

Sorted in Politics, Questions, Religions

Hi Stephanie, Thank you for writing to us here at Alterheros, we appreciate your question and will do our best at helping you. You are faced with a conflict between your feelings towards Islam and your Ally status for the queer community. Having been raised by a gay parent, you feel strongly ... Read more.
I don’t want to waste my teen years on the ‘wrong’ sex.

I don’t want to waste my teen years on the ‘wrong’ sex.

Question asked by Isaiah (15 years old questioning man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on August 30, 2010 by

Sorted in Acceptance, En questionnement, Questions

Hi Isaiah, Thank you for writing to Alterheros. I am glad that you are aware of the fact that you are young and thus have plenty of time to decide. First of all, give yourself a pat on the back for that because many people your age are not aware of ... Read more.
I’m having violent sexual dreams

I’m having violent sexual dreams

Question asked by whitney (23 years old heterosexual woman from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on August 30, 2010 by

Sorted in Aggression, Family, Questions

Hi Whitney, I want to start off by telling you that it's a good thing you found a way to redirect your dreams of sex by some means; concerning your new kind of dreams, let me reassure you that it is also normal. Pornography is a double edged thing: it ... Read more.
Depressed – is it my gender identity?

Depressed – is it my gender identity?

Question asked by Ken (17 years old homosexual man from United States of America, United States of America)

Question answered on August 26, 2010 by

Sorted in Depression, Questions, Transsexuality

Ken, Thank you for reaching out and taking it upon yourself to talk with someone, sometimes the only thing someone really needs is an outlet to talk themselves through their own questions. Gender identity can be a complicated concept to wrap your head around, and there are no clear cut ... Read more.
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