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Is sodomy (anal penetration) dangerous?
Hello Eric,
Anal penetration (or sodomy), is not dangerous and will not lead to negative long-term effects when it is practised safely while taking the necessary precautions. Of course, you must be prudent about the types of objects that you insert into the anus. For example, the ... Read more.
Am I gay? Who can I talk to?
Hello Alex,
First of all, you're taking steps in the right direction: accepting who you are. It's not always easy, and the feelings that you're experiencing are normal. Often, when one discovers that he/she is gay, he/she hates himself/herself for being this way, because one might think that ... Read more.
What’s a ”Fag Hag”? Can I find a meaningful relationship with someone who’s not gay?
Hi Candy,
You are indeed in a difficult situation. It is important that you think of protecting yourself because it looks like this situation is hurting you. It is true that it happens that woman fall in love with gay man. Perhaps they find in them what they ... Read more.
I’ve found myself attracted to guys, does that mean that I’m gay?
Hello Kevin,
First of all, bravo to have written an email. To put your thoughts on paper with regard to your attractions is not easy and you've made a positive step in the right direction, the self-discovery of who you are. The question you've asked can only be answered by ... Read more.
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What Is Gender Identity? Transgendered?
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Question answered on January 14, 2003 by Équipe AlterHéros
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