Thank you so much for writing in to us at AlterHéros. First of all, congratulations on getting your F1 student Visa; we're sure that was a task all on its own! Now, in terms of answering your questions, the advice you will find here will remain general since we ... Read more.
First off, I would like to commend you on standing up for gay rights and supporting the gay community! I know it is not an easy thing to do to stand up to your peers and confront them about something important to you.
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You explain that you recently had an experience with a girl while still in a relationship with your boyfriend. After disclosing this to your boyfriend, he is willing to put this aside and to continue the relationship, but you ... Read more.
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In your question, you explain that you are happily in a relationship with your boyfriend and are thinking about engagement and marriage. You also bring up that you sometimes fantasize about other women during foreplay but not during sex* with ... Read more.
Thanks for writing to AlterHeros about your situation. Just to rephrase it, your boyfriend told you recently he's bisexual and it causes a conflict of emotions in you, both excitation and insecurity. Those feelings are totally normal, and it's normal to be confused. I believe in this situation communication ... Read more.
Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. I hear you say that you have feelings for a girl that has gestured many body language cues that could indicate romantic feelings - however you are unsure whether to share with her how you feel. There are several aspects to ... Read more.
Thanks for writing to us at AlterHéros. It sounds like the fact that your long term boyfriend is masturbating online with other men is causing you a great deal of concern. Notably, you did not mention two things in your post: 1) whether or not this ... Read more.
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You shared with us you developed an attraction to your close friend, Victoria. When telling her about your feelings, she told you she also had feelings towards you but she is currently in a relationship. You've noted that this makes it hard for you ... Read more.
Thanks for submitting your question to Alterheros. It sounds like you're in a difficult spot! From what you're telling me, it sounds like from your past emotions and reactions to past sexual encounters with your boyfriend and girls, that there are a lot of things going on. ... Read more.
Two years is a long time for a guy to wait for a girl to kiss him, and while I sympathize with this guy and understand your concern for him, I think that now would definitely be a good time to be honest with him about your sexuality. You've ... Read more.
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