Dad
Negative beliefs about men might be ruining my relationship.
Dear Kathleen,
It is really impressive that you know why you feel doubtful of men. The events you are describing are all things that both genders are capable of, which I'm sure you're aware of. Both women and men cheat. Both mothers and fathers cheat. Women are capable ... Read more.
I am scared of the reaction of my parents when I will announce my sexual orientation
Hello and thanks for your question!
For starters, go ahead and tell your dad again, if you feel you need to do it a second time. It doesn't sound like he had an awful reaction, so perhaps he would handle it alright if you reminded him adn told him that it ... Read more.
I’m BiSexual, And I Don’t Know How To Tell My Parents.
Hi Sophie,
Thank you for your question.
Talking to parents about your sexual orientation can be really hard. It seems like you are afraid your parents (particularly your dad) will not be very receptive at first.
If you do choose to talk to your parents about how you identify and who you are ... Read more.
Closet problems
This is a story basically about my worries of coming out. I have lived in Texas for about 10 years now and I am wondering if i will ever be able to muster up the courage to tell anyone. It’s a strange feeling, of not knowing who to turn to or what to do.
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Is it a possibility its just in my head ?
Hi Dylan,
You noticed you like boys and you are afraid your dad will find out you are attracted by boys. How will he know it? I understand that you dont want him to know it now and it is ok; you've just found you are attracted by boys. But if ... Read more.
My dad tried to kill himself, what should I do ?
Hi Evan,
If you have a great relationship with both of your parents it's hard to choose who you want to live with. You probably feel guilty about having to pick one over the other. But don't go on a scare right away. Even if your dad is looking at a ... Read more.
I came out to my father but he denies it
Hello Ara,
Coming out to one's parents can be fraught with emotional issues, denial, anger and, yes, even acceptance. I commend you on coming out to your dad and I'm sorry that he had such a negative reaction. But you've taken the first big step and now you can choose to ... Read more.
Somebody Loses
It was an accident, Dad said, his shoulders hunched up around his ears. He doubled the aggression of the windshield wipers with a flick of his wrist. I don’t know how it happened. At our age I just didn’t think it was very likely.
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Addressing Homophobic Behavior In the Classroom
I began teaching 1st grade in 1988. At that time, it was rare that I heard words related to gay issues from my students. When I left the classroom in 1998, appropriate and inappropriate discussion about gay issues was commonplace. I remember once during “learning centers” I heard the word “gay” coming from the block [...]
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